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I had to deal with some guy at work trying to do some tiktok video and including me in it so I could complement his side gig or some shit (and likely only including me because women get views). And if I complain too much about being included in their grift everyone will shit on me for being a karen or for not helping him with it. Jesus fucking christ, I hate people that try to constantly plaster their face and name on everything to make money. Fuck youtubers, fuck tiktok, fuck ads, stop stealing peoples work for a quick buck 'by doing commentary', leave me the fuck alone

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[–] vidi_vici_veni@lemmy.zip 34 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The problem isn’t TikTok or YouTube—it’s some guy at work who felt entitled to use you for his side hustle. If someone treats you like a prop instead of a person, you don’t owe them compliance, and you don’t owe bystanders an explanation either.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Yep. Nothing forces anyone to do anything, people do this crap willingly, and then blame everyone else for their poor behaviors.

It's called be a shitty human being.

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Well TikTok is also extra reprehensible since it's been taken over by CIA/Oracle.