[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I feel like trans spaces or moving more towards building our own infrastructure rather than relying on certain genocidal megacorporations like Facebook, so thats probably part of the decline in use of apps like this.

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 7 points 4 days ago

This isnt a meme, this is you posting your own personal beef with someone and crying about it

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 days ago

If a woman said that she had a stalker showing up everywhere she went, I would hope that you wouldn’t say that they just sounded paranoid.

Excuse me, are you a woman? If not, fuck off with these analogies

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 days ago

Of course, China is the believable one here, right? Because normally that would be done by a consulate.

A lot of countries have like one guy doing volunteer/low pay work in some random spot in the country far from a consulate to help people with papers and so on. Its super common.

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 days ago

US State Department 🤝 You

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Doubt it, I messaged them about either possibility, crickets. Maybe if they had a trans person or simply someone that isn't a guy on the team it would be different. Right now I fully suggest swapping to hexbear if you want a safer space for trans people, but if you're fine with wading through bullshit, other places are fine I guess.

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 days ago

You defended biden's genocide so... not exactly a civil thing you did there. You led with being evil.

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 16 points 6 days ago

matrix stays winning

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 11 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Ada refused to answer a simple direct question that I posed "Will you ban trans fascists/racists" and preferred to talk around it

As such blahaj.zone is not an inclusive space and is fundamentally only for white people of a liberal bent, the only place I can recommend as accepting and inclusive and has a large trans community is hexbear.

Also, to be frank, most of their community is /c/196. Trans people feel like a minority there.

'Apolitical' just means liberal and too accepting of transphobes, racists, and chasers and is a prime issue with this instance even.

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Ada also refused to answer a simple direct question that I posed "Will you ban trans fascists/racists" and preferred to talk around it

As such blahaj.zone is not an inclusive space and is fundamentally only for white people of a liberal bent, the only place I can recommend as accepting and inclusive and has a large trans community is hexbear.

Also, to be frank, most of their community is /c/196. Trans people feel like a minority there. Also, Hexbear defederated blahaj, not the other way around. They defederated because chasers from blahaj were harassing their trans users + 196 was harassing trans users over their socialist politics.

[-] marcie@lemmy.ml 19 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Nutomic is still a site admin, nothings been done. I fully suggest if you want a more safe and secure place for trans people to move to hexbear. They have a lot of very friendly and inclusive trans people there and are very active and have something like 50 trans mods/admins. You can browse their comms from lemmy.ml if you want to take a look at them

I would ban him from here but to do that he has to make a post so 🤷‍♀️. Lemmy.ml admin team is 100% a boys club and its why this instance is so bad. I personally use lemmy.ml to check on trans spaces across the fediverse, I feel like thats the only use case its good for.

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/transgender@lemmy.ml

I'm calling for https://lemmy.ml/u/Beaver@lemmy.ca, the most prolific user of the transgender comm here on lemmy.ml, to be immediately unbanned and nutomic to be removed as admin. It is good and correct to leak the DMs of transphobes.

@dessalines@lemmy.ml @JoeBidet@lemmy.ml @cypherphunks

edit: you can find more info from kristinas post here and beavers post here

edit 2: proof, also beaver was banned from the whole instance modlong

edit 3: For trans people looking for a safer instance, I suggest Hexbear. They have a very active trans user base and are extremely supportive.

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/transgender@lemmy.ml

If you have no preferred pronouns, just say (none) or something

This will help make people feel more comfortable in this comm and has a side effect of showing you support trans people when making comments in other communities. It will also make reactionaries seethe and make it easier for mods to purge them, and make trans people feel safer all over the fediverse.

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/transgender@lemmy.ml

Hello, if you are transgender and socialist, please make an application below. We have lax requirements, I'm basically hoping to copy the success of Hexbear's trans community. Basic ideas of modding this space:

  • Rule with an iron fist. This is meant to be a safe place for transgender people. If someone is making that not happen / is fucking the vibes, they should be gone.

  • Purge transphobes on sight

  • No leftist infighting. Anarchists and communists can be friends

  • Suggest to cis and trans people that they change their username to include pronouns so no one misgenders them

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submitted 2 weeks ago by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/transgender@lemmy.ml

cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/3016455

Hey folks, hoping to have a semi-permanent thread for compiling resources to make finding really cool posts easier. Please suggest links and info in the comments below. I consider this necessary because there's a lot of things we would like pinned but obviously things get very crowded quickly. This thread will start sparse and I will edit new things in as people suggest them.


Trans Chemist Series

These posts are done by a Hexbear user that I have verified as legit, offering unique information about trans DIY hrt, including quality sources, sanitation, storage recommendations. Verified by very expensive industrial chemistry equipment.


DIY Electrolysis Series

There posts are also done by a Hexbear user that is making an open source DIY electrolysis setup.


PSAs


Site Surveys


Links

  • https://genderdysphoria.fyi (this link has allegedly been problematic deep into the past, but seems to have cleaned up a lot)

  • /r/transdiy wiki archive : https://archive.md/gDgj1

  • /r/transwiki wiki archive : https://archive.md/OzyAk

  • trans australia : https://trans.au/

  • haircuts for trans people : https://strandsfortrans.org/

  • .Do It Yourself - Hormone Replacement Therapy - Very Basic Information Thread on DIY HRT. https://hexbear.net/post/8763710, guide to using Monero, a private cryptocurrency

  • https://www.transacademy.org/ - Trans Academy is a VRChat group that provides help/community for trans people. Among other things, they do free bi-weekly voice training seminars (in VRChat but also streamed on Discord and Twitch) and make-up tutorials (on Discord), and the classes include content for transmasc, enby, transfem peeps. VRChat is free and doesn't require VR (using the desktop or android app), but you can also participate in most of the class stuff through the Discord.


Webrings and Friends

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submitted 3 weeks ago by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/emoji@hexbear.net

or :trans-cult:

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submitted 3 weeks ago by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone

i know people here have a sour taste over hexbear but im so happy to see trans spaces on the fediverse popping off, im so done with corporate social media and its great to see.

love seeing hundreds of trans people vibing

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/privacy@lemmy.ml

I'm looking for ones that ideally don't log IP. Is there a guide somewhere that looks into each of these instances and whether or not they fulfill the privacy promise?

I'm most interested in Invidious.

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submitted 1 month ago by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/vegan@hexbear.net
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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/lgbt@lemmy.world

https://hexbear.net/post/2687582

I thought this poll and their previous trans poll were interesting. Blahaj also had a poll with about 40 responders.

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/opensource@lemmy.ml

I want to ungoogle myself as much as possible, but I've found that Google Maps is by far the best dataset for maps. I can search 'fast food' and it'll pull up anything related to that near me. I've tried things like OrganicMaps, and while it is blazing fast and very private in comparison to Google Maps, it unfortunately does not have the best information.

Are there any apps that are kind of like a proxy/nitter like frontend for Google Maps and it respects privacy? Are there any ways to just straight up rip data from Google Maps and pull it into another app?

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submitted 2 months ago by marcie@lemmy.ml to c/transgender@lemmy.ml

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/16131303

Dug up their survey for it out of curiosity, you can find their original post here https://hexbear.net/post/2226865

Interesting note on cis women https://hexbear.net/comment/4782033

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