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My “daughter” identifies as “masc”? (lemmings.world)

submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by MotherAccount@lemmings.world to c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I (39F) have a “daughter” (15 masc, 15M?) who I guess is now my son. He identifies as masc, which I guess is masculine? So I guess I will use he/him pronouns. And he prefers to be called James or Jimmy. Jimmy has talked about wanting to be a boy before, but he has been very vocal about it as of recent and at first I was just thinking it was a tomboy situation but now that he identifies as masc, I was thinking of how I can support Jimmy and get used to it.

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[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 39 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You are well on the way. Using his proper name and pronouns and trusting him.

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Don't out him to anybody that he hasn't said is OK. It's his story to tell and he gets to decide who is safe.

If you're in a red state, it may be necessary to hide this from his doctor, school, busybody neighbors, which sucks.