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Bathtub Thoughts

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This community is inspired by this post on !showerthoughts@lemmy.world:

We really need a community where you can just post about anything that you’re really passionate about, which you’re currently researching/thinking about, sothat others can learn something about it as well and maybe discuss about it.

This showerthoughts community is a bit like it because you can just post whatever comes to your mind, but i’d like it to be more in-depth and with higher quality. Something like showerthoughts, but bathtubthoughts, i.e. when you’re soaking in a hot bathtub and thinking about stuff for 20 minutes or sth, and then post that. You know what i mean?

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We are so damn diverse with hidden strengths -- even neurotypicals -- like life in a forest, with the potential to empower each other. Life came from the damn stars, and evolved into all these weird things, and we are here part of it for maximum of a bit over 100 years like this. Yet ~11,100 generations of "us" have existed before us and more will most certainly come, and if not as humans, life will probably continue anyway.

What's really mind-blowing for me is what I learned on my quest to understand why people do the most horrendous things. And we see that a big part is Dark Traits, which is documented to be very prevalent among the most powerful people.

Psychopathy, for example, can be genetic and according to recent studies even exists in cats.
It's an evolutionary thing to survive (of course can be developed during life as well). And as it became less useful of a set of traits for cats to survive, it receded in prevalence.

So, 1. If I was a primary psychopath and didn't really feel any emotional empathy, shame, or guilt, it would be a lot harder not to serious harm other living things over the course of my life, than if I had strong emotions here.

Which means, 2. it can be rooted-out over time, by shaping the world to make compassion more desirable/effective for anyone's self-interest of survival and essential needs. And if humans are more compassionate such a massive part of the suffering and injustice would go away.

And this, I think, is beautiful.


Even with this, I feel it's important to say, to still be wary of some people. Even if you see a good side or core in them, they might not be able to connect to it, or stay connected, but put on a mask to act as though you moved them, to later exploit you.

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[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Life came from the damn stars

Fun fact: I consider Earth a star as well so we're still literally on a star. :D

[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

This made me smile. I like the perspective :) I have no idea if it's true or not, or how relevant the definition of a star is here. Now quickly, find cover, before anyone might come trying to correct this!