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I am 38 years old. I'm 6'3" and grew up an athlete. In my 20s I gained a bunch of weight and lost it all and got down to about 225 from 315. I had two kids and got lazy during covid. I am currently at 330 and want to get back down.

I know that a caloric deficit is my answer and I'm going to start counting calories every day. My problem is that I can't motivate myself to exercise in a routine. I play ice hockey on Fridays, and I want to work out 3 or so other times a week. I have a membership to LifeTime fitness for free through work, but it's 30 minutes away. I have a Peloton that I really love riding and doing HIIT. I also have dumbbells, a bench, and resistance bands for strength.

I try to wake up at 5:30 to work out. I tell myself that I'm too tired and go back to bed and that I'll work out in the evening. The evening comes and I want to hang out with my kids and then when they go to bed I want to be with my wife. So, I tell myself I'll workout in the morning. I'm full of excuses.

I know what you are going to say. You just have to do it and it if you want it so bad, you'll find a way. I've been telling myself this same thing for 6 years. I'm 4 weeks into sobriety and thought this would all fall into place, but it's not. It's too cold and snowy here to walk in the evenings.

Do you have any books that will help me figure this out? Advice?

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[–] frisbird@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

If you have fat stores and want to get rid of them faster, consider researching ketosis. You can also increase fiber intake and add raw foods to lower the percentage of consumed calories that actually get absorbed.

If you like HIIT, do HIIT when you wake up before you eat. Do less than 30m. If you do Tabata, do a Tabata session. Then have breakfast.

If your workouts in the morning before breakfast are less than 30m, would you be more willing to do it? If you made the commitment not to eat anything until after your first work out, would you at least do pushups besides the bed so you can eat something?