ADHD memes

depression [is] a result of constantly being overwhelmed, hypervigilant, and so on.

Wrong. Absolutely incorrect. Stop reading whatever self help bullshit that told you that.

multi generational family

This sounds like absolute hell. Not all of us have good relationships with our families. Most of the people with ADHD have at least one parent with ADHD, and guess who has problems regulating emotions. And guess what kind of risky behaviors the children will engage in.

Even though there are more people to do chores, there are more people producing dishes, laundry, trash. It's a wash at best for neurotypical people, but a bunch of people that have a hard time initiating tasks? Again, doesn't seem like a rosy picture to me.