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Earlier this week my advisor was in an online meetings with the other RAs, I was doing other duties at the time, so I arrived late. He brought up a delay I guess I caused on a previous project (I don't recall anything that was particularly long, I think he may have been referring to me pointing out an issue with the math he would have preferred to ignore, but that could just be me being catty) and called my code 'messy' and said to not use my code, but instead use his vibe-coded script that gave better results (It was incorrect, surprise). Today he yelled at me for not getting some work done and I blew up at him, and recused myself from the project (today was the deadline to submit the paper, so that was kind of a dick move).

Now that I am less angry and thinking more clearly, I can't help but think that this is a massive break of professional decorum, and breaks my trust in him entirely. I don't feel that I can really trust him to write proper reviews of my work or be relied upon as a reference.

Am I correct in feeling this way, or am I overreacting?

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[–] theturtlemoves@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

I was late on my deliverables (because I had lost sleep thinking about what to do about the other stuff but that's besides the point.) However, I was being yelled at while doing another thing that was asked for, explicitly due in 2 hours.

He also doesn't know how to program

Anyone who has written a computer programme knows that you cannot predict how long it will take before you start. Doubly so if you are coming up with something new (which I assume you are). If something takes longer than expected to write, it takes longer than expected to write, and that's it. Definitely not an excuse to shout or be unprofessional about.