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[–] Bamboodpanda@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Cats can associate negative experiences with events, but they do not learn rules or specific behaviors from punishment the way people hope they will. Their learning window is only a couple of seconds, so anything aversive that happens after that just feels random to them. What they actually learn is that the person or place involved is unsafe, not that the behavior was wrong.

That is why punishment often leads to fear, hiding, aggression, or avoidance instead of fixing the problem. It damages trust faster than it changes behavior.

Positive reinforcement, environmental management, and redirection work far better because they match how cats naturally learn. Reward the behavior you want, set up the environment so the unwanted behavior is less appealing, and guide them toward better choices.

In practical terms, aversive training with cats is almost always counterproductive. Positive methods are both more effective and more humane.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Cat shrink, can you explain why my cat screams all goddamn day while I’m trying to work? He doesn’t want held. He doesn’t have an empty dish. He can reach his many toys. He’s healthy. He’s comfortable. He won’t shut the fuck up.

I get off work and leave the office and he’s no longer screaming. Doesn’t need me or anything.

[–] BanMe@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Does eye contact shut him up? Cats use eye contact as a primary communication mode, and meowing to communicate with humans, he might be conditioned to think the meowing gets the eye contact he wants.

Or, he's just an asshole, lots of cats are assholes too.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

No effect at all.

[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

He's telling you your job is bad for your mental health? 😂 idk

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

I mean he’s not wrong but I have to work so he can eat.