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Conversations, monal, gajim. All have their own quirks or missing different parts of the spec but the absolutely worst part of xmpp is waiting ages for it to sync on another device if you hadn’t used it in a while or lose your entire conversation history instead.
The worst part was sometimes certain people couldn’t download the omemo key for whatever reason or they just wouldn’t receive half of my messages and found it was because their instance just rejected stuff at random but the client didnt tell you that it was only because we were hosting a server we could see comms werent working. Oh and randomly at one point images stopped working for several days. We used it for quite a long time after moving off matrix for similar reasons and it just got untenable after a while. I still prefer it over matrix but it lacks a lot of polish even after all this time.