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[–] MystValkyrie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

-Transition, if not then and there, then at 18 when I've moved out. And see a therapist to manage depression and anxiety either way.

-Don't fall out of touch with the friend who would pass away in four years' time.

-Do everything I can to make sure my best friend doesn't make the choice that ruins the rest of his life.

-Choose a degree for a field that won't be replaced by AI and definitely don't consider grad school for that same field.

Welp, this was a sad thread.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

+1 for social and medical transition, my priority would be securing estrogen first and foremost.

Also, pretty easy to make money in this situation - get a part time job and start putting all your money into Apple and Bitcoin 😅

I think I might also move to get emancipation from my parents, and I would take the full ride scholarships I know I'm very likely to get in a couple years and go to college.

I would breakup with my girlfriend, too. She was cheating on me behind my back, and ends up breaking up with me in a year or two to pursue an online relationship.