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[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

I'm pretty sure it wasn't the same person ngl, blahaj just seems to have loads of accidental racists and bigots on it

[-] DroneRights@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

Oh, and a chaser who came onto me in PMs, then commented transphobic shit on my posts and tried to dox me

[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Oh god that's awful, I had a chaser be really weird at me too and follow me from post to post calling me "m'lady" and had someone accuse me of being chaserphobic - was your chaser a teenage Vaush fan by any chance, because we might have got the same one

Ngl before defederation I was really trying to push for the two instances staying together but now I'm increasingly souring on blahaj for their poor moderation

[-] DroneRights@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

No idea if they were a vaush fan. They were very firm in their belief that trans people shouldn't be forced to engage in politics, and that's why they harassed random trans people who don't like Blahaj trying to get them to debate the politics of the issue.

[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

Oh god just from the sound of them I think I know who you mean, they might be the person who accused me of being chaserphobic after I politely told a chaser I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with anyone who talked about trans people so fetishisticly like they did

[-] ExotiqueMatter@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 year ago

What is a chaser? Genuinely dont know.

[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

a chaser is a cis person who fetishises and objectifies trans people, frequently in a way that's pretty transphobic once you look under the surface. A lot of the time though they're able to avoid being labelled as transphobes and postion themselves as allies because they agree that trans people have a right to exist, and don't hate trans people the same way - they're basically the mirror image of people who used to say shit like "i support gay rights because it means i get to see women kissing in public and have threesomes with bisexual girls". A pretty common element is also them taking advantage of the fact that a lot of trans people are societally vulnerable, frequently face social rejection and so are more likely to accept any form of "positive" attention, even if it comes from someone who just wants to fuck them, need money for gender affirming treatment, etcetera - so this ranges from chasers getting with trans people because trans people are more likely have lower standards on the mild end of the spectrum to on the other end, threatening to withhold gender affirming treatment from them, taking advantage of their economic situation to coerce them etcetera.

sometimes though the term is used incorrectly to just refer to people who are just attracted to trans people, without it being fetishistic or controlling

tl;dr: they're basically just guys who would be sexpats but they want to stay in the first world, so looked for a different vulnerable group at home and settled on trans people

[-] ExotiqueMatter@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Ok Well, yikes.

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