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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 14 points 19 hours ago (4 children)
[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 16 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

Thanks for proving Reddit has been exposing the truth about you #sarahnicolelandry #thebirdspapaya If it wasn't true and you weren't afraid of just gossip, you would be unbothered and just scroll by. BUT you know, receipts are always provided and they've learned from the last shut down, receipts are kept. They will just be posted to a broader community and more subreddits now. You shot yourself in the foot.

I feel this relates to 2 things that I noticed on that sub that she's terrified of and gained a lot of traction lately:

  1. Her C relationship and the allegations mounting of her infidelity. All Shame would have to do is use all of the evidence complied in those Reddit posts and present to lawyers.

  2. Recently it was posted that NB and her parents have been on a smear campaign against Shame. That is very damning and be very harmful to her in court. That person knows something.

What are your thoughts on what it could be?

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 16 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I never saw the thing about the Shame smear campaign. If true, that is BEYOND insane.

[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 hours ago

Didn’t NK and bird do something similar with the first husband?

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I didn’t see anything about it either!

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 18 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Somebody started the convo saying they couldn't believe that NB would support somebody who had extramarital affairs. A user, who has posted some other details showing they have intel on other posts noted that NB is in on a smear campaign that also involved bird parents against Shame. They have "allegations" of him being a "bad guy" and they've been "watching him" for "some time" now.

I wouldn't put this past them at all. Whenever Bird is at fault for something, her entourage go into full bully mode and try to divert the attention from her being the problem. There are many, well documented cases of this over the years. It's a pattern they have.

[–] foxontherun@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 hours ago

Oh wow - I thought they were referring to her 1st ex-husband as they went all kinds of crazy on him. Wouldn't surprise me if they're doing the same to the latest ex.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I definitely think it was the video of her with C, which I hope someone has saved! Shouldn’t have an affair if you don’t want it talked about

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 16 hours ago

I think that’s what happened too. The other day someone kept asking where the video came from and someone said a new account had posted it. The person doing the asking was very persistent and seemed to have an agenda.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 17 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

You’re on to something here. How she has this much control is mind blowing! Add in a legal precedent and this makes total sense.

I want in on the new sub - I love having a front row seat to her being called out for her lies and bullshit. Spoiled little princess

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 11 points 18 hours ago

What's the new sub?

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 17 hours ago

Also, is it being challenged? Can they appeal the ban?

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 16 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Unreal. Maybe there needs to be a blog made instead. We could comment on posts as the discussion. Bonus, it would show in search results.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Do we create another sub as well?

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 14 points 19 hours ago

She obviously has shown someone at Reddit her rock. It’s whack a mole.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

There are at least 2 others already I think. Actually I only see one.

[–] lightweight@lemmy.ca 10 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I know I’m in another one that was barely used but can’t remember the name. Hoping they make a post so it pops up in my feed!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 6 points 13 hours ago

I thought there was another one!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

there’s birdspoop Maybe we can get that one thriving for now

[–] lightweight@lemmy.ca 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

That was the other one I was in but now I don’t see it. Last I saw was when they made a post a month or two ago (maybe it was the hockey video actually). Not coming up in my search or communities. Is it still there?

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 10 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Yea it’s still there! They made a new post about the AJC sub being shutdown

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 9 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I requested to join that sub ages ago! Someone let me in 😂

[–] lightweight@lemmy.ca 6 points 15 hours ago

lol me too! Says I’ve requested when I clicked the link but swear I was in it already.

[–] lightweight@lemmy.ca 8 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Weird I wonder why it’s not coming up for me anymore - I don’t think I’d be banned as I’ve never posted there since so quiet. I usually lurk Reddit so as not to deal with any doxxing there

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Are you in the group, if so can you add me. I have requested numerous times and nothing.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 hours ago

I’m not a mod there, I don’t even know who the mod is or I’d message them and tell them to add you

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 8 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I asked for an add but never get one. 👍

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Really?? That’s weird, I’d figured they’d accept anyone

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

The same thing happened to me and when I click the link it says the request is under review but I sent it ages ago. I tried to message the mod using the link but it doesn’t work.

[–] curious_walriss_888@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago

I actually think the mod left?? There is apparently no mod rn. I've been in since the beginning, and I don't remember who it was who started it. I requested to be a mod, so 🤞

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 7 points 16 hours ago
[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 6 points 16 hours ago

I think I was banned on that sub? I haven’t been able to see it for awhile now

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 9 points 18 hours ago

Invite me plsssss Brazilian_lemon 🙏

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

omg I just went and checked! This sucks. I hate these women.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

I had a feeling it was going to get banned after that hockey game video! Just the like after the mall video

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 18 hours ago

Yupp that’s what I think did it, just took a while to happen. Shouldn’t have had an affair to be accused of

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 8 points 18 hours ago

I sent you a message 🙃

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 19 hours ago

Wtf. Who gives these pigs so much power? I also noticed that leaks blocked me on insta and I’ve never commented on anything, ever 😅