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I love that explanation that goes "homophobic men are worried that gay men will treat them like homophobic men treat women."
i prefer the explanation that goes men have been in locker rooms and heard what shit other men said in grade school. i'd choose the bear too.
I actually never heard that kind of talk in grade school, or rather it was already getting pushback 🤷♂️
i'm older xenniel, so like i heard it from the lads born in the 70s but didn't repeat it. telling them to knock it off just made you a target so after the first few times you keep your head down.
kind of like here, now that i notice.