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[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

men seek out custody less often

do you think that could be a symptom of men feeling like there's no point even trying if they're just gonna lose?

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Then they’re pretty weak men who have failed as fathers.

Men who seek custody and aren’t abusive are usually awarded custody of some kind.

[–] MrFinnbean@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So are you saying that men that loose custody are weak and its their fault? So in a way its the victims fault? Huh. Never tought it that way.

I truly belive in equality, but i cant deny, that its funny how its often the same arguments in the both end of the spectrum.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

No, men that choose to not seek custody and abandon their children because of a misconception are weak and bad fathers.