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Not USian so ymmv
I found that thankfully within groups, stuff has gotten a bit better. I genuinely felt alienated and miserable within each and every group, big tent or not, I was in before 2020 in the sense that cis women could be very cruel to trans women and if I hit verbally back, I was the aggressor and had cis dudes blow up at me. Now it had been at least not as bad. Just some people stumbling to use my pronouns.
I think an important point is to try and see if there is the possibility of becoming a fellow traveller before comitting more. A) you dont want a party that gives out full membership right away B) the group might suck
wrt B: Shit is scary but a revolutionary situation usually means things are already bad enough that there is not a lot to lose anymore for you. Doesnt really help, but it gives you some perspective. Paranoia shouldnt prevent you from joining eventually. Imo a good heuristic is that a badly run and a federally run group are functionally equivalent.