With previous Rexit's like the API debarcle etc. many users were left looking for an alternative, but with decision fatigue and bad UX etc. most did not find the Fediverse a viable option.

What needs to still improve, how can we be ready this time?

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[–] SARGE@startrek.website 6 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (2 children)

My wife started out with tons of republican views, she just didn't vote ever.

Through conversations about the state of things, pointing* out hypocrisy, and validating the feelings her religious family was telling her to suppress, I'm happy to say I've managed to marry a leftist. She didn't even really have the liberal pit-stop many of us take.

I'll take 100,000 leftists married/dating/whatever to 100,000 liberals over 200,000 conservatives any day of the week.

[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

She didn't even really have the liberal pit-stop many of us take.

Glad to hear I'm not the only one. Imagine my chagrin after years of rigorously checking the assumptions and programming of my conservative upbringing and converting to liberalism, when I found out that leftism and liberalism are actually different things, with a diversity of opinions and worldviews that I then needed to parse in order to determine where I stand...

This mentality where "If you weren't born leftist and raised leftist and been leftist all your life and all your friends are leftist, then you're fascist scum who needs to perish in the revolution" is doing incalculable harm to any genuine leftist movement.

I keep saying "We can't keep alienating potential allies if we want to unite the working class" but they hit me with the "class traitors don't matter / we don't want to work with anyone who was formerly conservative [(as if anyone is to blame for their upbringing...)] / you're just a fascist apologist who needs to die in the revolution too / only our flavor of leftism is true leftism and anyone who disagrees with us is fascist scum who needs to die in the revolution / if you don't unquestioningly accept everything we tell you without any nuance then you're an enemy of the proletariat and need to die in the revolution"

They're really making leftism as a whole look bad, and they don't even realize it. I mean, how can you claim to represent the proletariat while simultaneously claiming that 60% or more of the proletariat need to be executed as class traitors? It's like they're trying to conform to the caricature that the right-wing depicts "radical leftist liberal communists" as. You're not going to catch many flies with that vinegar.

They'll say things like "we don't need help from fascist shitlibs" and other unironic and oxymoronic absurdities of that nature, but if you want a popular uprising then you're going to need to convince a majority of the population that you're all on the same team, otherwise you're nothing but an authoritarian reactionary.

It makes me really not want to take part in their supposed "revolution," especially when you see what the bolsheviks did to the soviets and anarchists after they helped them win theirs...

[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 1 points 28 minutes ago

The Left eats its own. The Right too... eventually, though seems to do a better job (especially lately but also historically as well) of putting aside their differences in the short-term in order to strategically attain their goals. e.g. they will accept a trans person of color voting for them... for a time, before they eventually put them to death.

This probably helps explain the global rise of fascism since WWII. Fascism is winning, and will do even more so given modern technology like surveillance tools.

Which makes the attitude of the so-called "leftists" on e.g. hexbear or lemmy.ml seem all the more odd to me. It appears as if the emotional "high" of incel-like whinging supercedes any actual irl progress attempts to be made. It is very juvenile. In their defense (if it can be called thus) they exist inside of echo chambers and so are kept in that juvenile state artificially. Right or so-called "Left", it is really difficult to break out of such a cult-like existence.

And the Threadiverse does not seem eager to either help them break out or at least protect new users and thereby expand the Threadiverse to a much wider audience, by e.g. defederation. In large part since people prefer to use the Lemmy devs to continue to develop that software, regardless of the consequences that will have upon the state of the Threadiverse overall (tbf, Lemmy was genuinely first there, and yet many of us are only here because first Kbin, then Mbin and now PieFed offers an alternative?). Thus, the enhancement of PieFed is my first real hope there (well, ever since the demise of Ernst's Kbin) that things can get better.

[–] Specter@feddit.org 2 points 1 hour ago

I'm happy to say I've managed to marry a leftist

The Good ending.