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They've always been religious but like in the sane way. Now that the divorce is happening, they've gone full Evangelist style batshit lecturing about how sinful everyone's lives are. What can I do?

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[–] slowtrain33@lemmy.ml 2 points 23 hours ago

Personally, I think your parents should be allowed to make their own decision about what religion and/or spirituality they want to adopt.

The reason they’re gravitating toward the religion is likely because the divorce has left them with an emotional hole. They’re finding love and compassion in the message of the religion, and probably some more compassion and companionship from fellow members of the religion.

While the message from the leaders may well be a ruse to hook people and get their money, the perceived benefits and actual fellowship are going to be hard for you to compete with. Especially so if you’re approaching it from the “all of you are batshit crazy” angle.

I think if you really want to help your parent, the best option would be to find a way to provide them even more love, compassion, and companionship than the church gives them. Then they might consider listening to your opinions on organized religion at some point later down the line after they’ve had time to heal from the emotional trauma that comes with divorce. This may also be a good strategy to help yourself if you’re feeling affected by the change too.