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Is all this true because "you have a goal" or "we have strict rules"? because that's how most dating platforms start but when they grow the new people in the project don't care about the founders goal and it slowly enshittifies. That being said if its actually designed to give the users real control so they can prevent the enshittifcation then I'm very interested
If its an app why does there need to be a geo restricted launch? if there's a valid reason id say launch in the closest capital to you
Unfortunately money does buy fame. it'll take ages to organically grow but using/creating a network will help (easier said then done)
I feel that, its very dependent innit. you just gotta mention it without sounding like a shill tbh
Thank you for the interest. Sorry to leave you hanging there, Cyn. (Funny, I knew a Cyn once.)
Not sure I follow your distinction between goal and rules there. It is certainly based on values and ideology more than a vision to become rich off of it. Some examples of how values look in concrete terms:
I know, this is just words on a screen but still, those are my values.
About the geo restriction, good question. The plan isn't to actively restrict users, but to launch with a focus in one area (say, Amsterdam). The thing is, it can make a lot of sense to host a little tool on github and have six people find it useful - but for a matchmaking app, what you really need is user density and in that regard it helps to focus on a smaller area to begin with. Six users on each and every continent aren't going to find great matches.
I like my account. I like the communities I'm in. I'd hate to be seen as a sleazy ad-monger or product peddler. I'd rather go slow and learn where such "hey by the way" conversation is not just acceptable but even encouraged.