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To be clear, not talking about this community, obviously πŸ˜›.

What's the point of writing down rules, if mods just do what they want? But I suppose that's the risk you take when you call someone a liar in a small community; they might be a mod.

Edit: I'm not trying to say that mods suck, they perform a useful and often thankless job. Just that it can be difficult for small communities to get a healthy number of good mods, which can become a problem.

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[–] SaltyIceteaMaker@lemmy.ml 30 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I get the feeling you're speaking from experience

[–] StalksEveryone@futurology.today 28 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Your honor, the prosecution is sullying the defendant’s reputation

[–] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 years ago

Your honor, the prosecution just hit me with a whip

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Lol perhaps πŸ˜…

It was a small community dedicated to shit talking another community, neither of which I was part of. A few posts showed up in my feed and one had a take I thought was kinda unreasonable, so I commented. I had a nice discussion with one community member, but OP came in hot. After a half-hearted effort to try to defuse, and being blatantly lied to in a few replies, I just told him he was a conniving liar.

A few days later I tried to comment on a different post, but I was banned.

Not a big deal, I'm not invested in either community, but it made me think of the struggles growing Lenny from these small nascent communities, into more more mature communities.

[–] saltesc@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Lemmy is riddled with echo chambers, most of which are people that love calling out people in echo chambers.

Circlejerks. Circlejerks everywhere.

That was pretty much exactly the case here, afaict.

[–] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Ad hominem attacks generally result in bans in most communities from what I've seen. This is the way it should be.

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's not an ad hominem, though. If someone says something, and you dismiss it and call them a liar, thats an ad hominem. If they tell a bunch of lies, and you label them a liar, that's not an ad hominem. That's accurately describing the person based on their choices.

I mean, if some lies, and I come with receipts and tell them that they're bad for doing so, I should get a ban? That doesn't seem right.