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[-] miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml 275 points 8 months ago

Obviously depends on the person, but I would love that question. Straight to the point, trying to understand where I'm at. I can and will appreciate that.

Maybe that's the neurospicy part of me. I can absolutely see why someone wouldn't like that.

[-] PhobosAnomaly@feddit.uk 126 points 8 months ago
[-] agent_flounder@lemmy.world 19 points 8 months ago

:D adopted new terminology

[-] pH3ra@lemmy.ml 62 points 8 months ago

Exactly: I'm more than happy to either give you emotional support or brainstorm a solution.
Just tell me which one, because the two things don't overlap at all.

[-] tryptaminev@feddit.de 44 points 8 months ago

TBF giving appliances an angry slap is often both an emotional and technical solution.

[-] pH3ra@lemmy.ml 20 points 8 months ago

Thanks for the heads up man, I'll try with my girlfriend

[-] bufordt@sh.itjust.works 26 points 8 months ago

Do not perform percussive maintenance on your SO.

[-] pH3ra@lemmy.ml 11 points 8 months ago

Ok then, I'll just set my tools mode to "drilling"

[-] eek2121@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago

Doesn’t that depend on the wishes of said SO? 😏🚨

[-] jaspersgroove@lemm.ee 7 points 8 months ago

Percussive maintenance is a legitimate form of therapy.

[-] agent_flounder@lemmy.world 23 points 8 months ago

Yeah same. It is weird because I'm never quite sure what mode my wife is in. And she never knows what mode I'm in.

Usually I'm the one in feelings mode because I usually solve the problem myself so if the problem is still there I tried and failed and am now emotional.

I will have to try this.

[-] jabrd@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Yea this is good partner behavior as I’ve been taught. Jumping straight to problem solving can be dismissive. It’s talking past where your partner is at rather than meeting them where they are

Actually thinking about this for a second I’m an idiot. What’s the solution stage for “my burrito exploded?” Pick it up ho?

[-] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 5 points 8 months ago

Might need to figure out how to remove a stain, what to eat instead, etc.

[-] FartsWithAnAccent@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago

You may have just given me my new favorite phrase

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