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Tech bros' attitude to female colleagues stuck in dark ages
(www.theregister.com)
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Being a computer nerd from childhood and growing up going to/organizing lan parties, gaming cons, being around that whole scene... you know about those weird guys who are just gross, uncomfortable around, naive towards women, sometimes feeling like their space is being invaded, thinking attractive women fake being nerds so they can get attention. The whole adjacent incel mindset as well. I've seen it take all sorts of forms, some perfectly innocent due to social isolation, potentially autism, just being intimidated by women especially if they're attractive. Sometimes it gets truly malicious and gross, and those guys need dick punches.
Like I'd have a guy walk in to a lan party, completely disheveled looking and unkempt, smelly, and he'd get pissed that "we didn't say there'd be girls here," implying he would have cleaned up if that were the case. I forgive any sort of mental illness or autism related thing when it comes to this, but it's not an excuse when it's clear they understand it's an issue. One guy once brought his freshman "Asian girlfriend" who could barely speak English, and would talk about their sex in gross ways in front of her without her knowing. That was a tough one because they were inseparable the whole time and finding a way to tell him to stfu without making her uncomfortable was a challenge. Someone blew up at him after the event and he never made it out again.