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They weren’t being honest. They were being intolerant. You’ve internalized it somewhat, and I’m sorry for that.
I appreciate the empathy, but I disagree. They were being honest from their perspective. I can respect that.
There’ve been a few people over the years who tried to gaslight me. Tried. One advantage of my age and particular expression of autism is that I genuinely don’t care what most people think.
You're lucky. The intolerance destroyed me.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you're better.
Never really found a way to recover. I don't have the best family where that's concerned.
Have you ever looked into unhealthy family roles, such as the scapegoat? When my therapist pointed that out to me, all of these confusing experiences and personalities that I just couldn't seem to understand or make happy made sense. That was the point: to always keep me trapped in a role where I wasn't good enough and that family problems were my fault. Once I got away, the whole system fell apart.