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submitted 11 months ago by AlicePraxis@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

I think that in a rational society everyone should feel free to choose their name, and doing so should be a normal and expected rite of passage.

It makes way more sense to choose the sound people make when they refer to you, than having your parents choose it for you before you're even a person yet.

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[-] PaX@hexbear.net 24 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Based

The only people who call me my birth-assigned name are my parents, governments, debt collectors, etc lol

It's not even gender-related or anything. I just don't identify with that name at all

Doesn't even have to be a one-time thing even. People change a lot throughout their lives. If someone wants to change their name sometimes to reflect that, that should be okay

[-] AlicePraxis@hexbear.net 9 points 11 months ago

nice, I'm trying to get on that, if I ever start meeting people again. I don't like introducing myself with my given name so I'd like to start using my chosen name with new people even if I'm not comfortable telling my family. also making art under the new name might help the transition and I'm using it online in a couple places (not here tho)

my situation is somewhat gender related - or rather it's related to the fact that I don't have a gender hexbear-agender

this post was submitted on 15 Jan 2024
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