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When do I get to say "bad girl" 😶

[-] XTL@sopuli.xyz 13 points 1 year ago

When you have their consent

So I can call 'em "good girl" without their consent, but I need consent to call them a "bad girl"

Also, why do you assume that I am a rapist by default?

[-] BiNonBi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago

Also, why do you assume that I am a rapist by default?

No one did? But you are making a compelling case now.

XTL said "when you have their consent" like I'm just gonna force myself on someone. And nowhere was it stated that we had consent to call them "good girl," so to throw that out there seems a bit...idk...assholish?

And please, tell me how I am making said compelling case. Pretty sure your off in lala land building a strawman in your subconscious. Projection, maybe?

[-] BiNonBi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago

When do I get to say “bad girl” 😶

My thoughts: Good comment. Plays into sub/bottom play a lot of tranfems are into. Ties into good girl pet play post.

When you have their consent My thoughts: Good response. Consent is the corner stone of all relationships.

Also, why do you assume that I am a rapist by default?

My thoughts: What the hell is this non-sequitur coming from. Why are they so defensive. Have they been creepy in the past and been called a rapist in order to have that be their first response?

[-] NuMetalAlchemist@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Or, just maybe, I was fuckin' with him and you took it in earnest? It struck me as weird they made a comment about consent, so I leaned into it.

I'll give you a bit of advice about me, since you seem pretty nice: I am almost never serious. I like to get into arguments on the internet for fun, and if I see a crack in the wall, I'm gonna dick with it. I'm a devils advocate incarnate.

EDIT: maybe I was a little excited because I was having too much fun arguing with that blahaj admin. Apologies for any offense!

[-] Tack@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

if I see a crack in the wall, I'm gonna dick with it.

Based, glory hole user.

[-] Hyggyldy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago

What if the only way I'm able to communicate with people irl is terrified shrieking?

Wow you are

are just like me fr

[-] aradon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 year ago
[-] ZILtoid1991@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago
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