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Pls eat me UwU (i.imgur.com)

submitted 2 months ago by meep_launcher@lemm.ee to c/memes@lemmy.world

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[-] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 31 points 2 months ago

How do I delete someone elses post?

[-] gibmiser@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I would like to do a study on cooccurance of vore fetishes in people with toxoplasmosis.

[-] Mastengwe@lemm.ee 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I’m so out of the loop, I have no idea what any of this means.

What’s is UwU and vore?

[-] insomniac_lemon@kbin.social 5 points 2 months ago

You want to get eaten as a sex thing.
I want to be euthanized by a woman in the woods, and I like the idea of her pet bear getting my brain as a treat.

We are not the same.

[-] Cano@lemm.ee 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Kinda makes me wonder, why is vore fetish a thing? Why did natural selection allow it to be passed down? Wouldn't a fetish that makes you fantasize about getting eaten be a disadvantage in the natural world? Thinking about it you could apply this to lots of different fetishes, like anything that has to do with masochism

Edit: I got the answers I needed

[-] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 months ago

Having a fetish for something doesn’t mean you want it to happen for real. People with a rape kink don’t want to be raped for real, for example. Even people who practice BDSM don’t want to be brutalized, what is or isn’t OK and how to make the other person immediately stop if you don’t like it is laid out beforehand. It’s all role playing.

[-] Cano@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago

Yeah, that was quite a big detail I forgot existed. Thanks for the reply, have a good day

[-] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I would take a step back: why are fetishes a thing? It's a difficult thing to research, especially since western society is reluctant to talk openly (or even privately to researchers) about their sex life. In this thread people talked about how childhood trauma could be a factor in kink, and that would make sense.

I can tell you from my experience, types of fetishes are not a biological response so much as social response. For me, I know many of my fetishes are simply based on the fact that it's a social taboo. If people walked around in gimp suits and nipple clips all the time in public, I would find that kink far less interesting.

My guess is good as any, but I think if being kinky with a partner has an evolutionary advantage, it would be about social cohesion. When you show someone this dark side of you that you would never show other people, you strengthen a bond with your partner (assuming they are into it as well).

In the case of vore fetish, my partner doesn't actually want to be eaten, rather she likes this version of submission where she is seen as "delicious". Once sex is over and we return to our senses, we maintain our sense of self preservation.

Personally I would never eat someone else, but playing this role is fun for me since I can get into a Dom role and do something society would frown upon if it was real.

With that said, I find in any kink play, aftercare is SUPER important. We say fucked up things while having sex all the time, but afterwards we make sure to assure eachother it was just an act. Communication during and then afterwards is so important to reinforcing the relationship when enjoying kink play.

[-] Cano@lemm.ee 3 points 2 months ago

Appreciate the feedback. I think I get it now. Thanks to you and the other users for explaining this to me

[-] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago

Ofc! Have fun, be safe, and don't actually eat people!

[-] andrew_s@piefed.social 5 points 2 months ago

Fetishes are irrational by definition. They're not passed down - they come about from childhood hang-ups (no-one wants to be eaten by a bear because their father or grandfather wanted to be eaten by a bear).