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Dr Hilary Caldwell’s new book Slutdom looks at how women navigate sex and shame, and at all ages. She shares what she’s learned as both a sex worker and as an academic.

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[-] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago
[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 11 points 1 month ago

I love to see anything pushing toward destroying this stigma. Sex is natural and wonderful, and sex workers are workers providing a valuable service.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

Valuable is not the same as ethical

[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 1 month ago

There's nothing unethical about a sapient, consenting adult providing sexual services for money for/with another sapient, consenting adult.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

I strongly disagree. Prostitution tends to come along with drug use, violence, abuse and human trafficking. It tends to be a act of desperation. I heard a story where a young girl was selling herself for around 7 USD because she was desperate for heroin.

[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 2 points 1 month ago

But these aren't issues with the profession, these issues stem from a wide range of factors including but not limited to poor support for- and an ever present societal stigma toward- victims of drug addiction, victims of abuse, and sex workers in general.

(and also, sex work doesn't just mean escorting services - selling pictures of your feet online is sex work)

[-] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You see an issue crop up in many areas where something is generally found distasteful by society at large, so it is made illegal by various means, leading to greater harm than if it was just legal and regulated. You will not eliminate demand, therefore you will not eliminate those attempting to supply the demand. If sex work was legalized and regulated, it would be much safer for the workers, customers, and even those who choose not to engage with it all. The current legal environment creates space for trafficking/slavery, public health concerns, and a lack of physical safety for all. While a legal and regulated industry won't completely remove the black market, it would greatly reduce it and the harms it causes. Is there still demand for dusty garage tattoos? Yes, but that is certainly not the majority of the market.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

I think Prostitution and Rape are two thinks that we left behind for the most part. That's a good thing.

[-] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 2 points 1 month ago

It is quite interesting that you believe prostitution and rape have been "left behind" in any appreciable way. It is also quite interesting that you equate the two. I'm supposed to be just agreeing and disengaging, but that is quite a fascinating mindset.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

It is way less common than it was during the US gold rush. I can't speak for countries outside the US.

[-] pelletbucket@lemm.ee 9 points 1 month ago

i thought this was about sexy mummified people

[-] MelastSB@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

Yummy mummy Khalida

[-] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Mummy didn't mean you have you! You were an accident!

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