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I fucked up. (Rule) open post (i.imgur.com)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by hmmm@sh.itjust.works to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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So, I don't usually use Instagram but Today I needed it to contact someone becuase I didn't have my phone with me and don't remember his phone no. IG was only option so I used his(my friend) device to login then after calling. My friend said let's check how much fucked up my reel feed is so I said "Go ahead, It just all Silly Cat and Programming meme unlike your Racist dark humours joke"(I swear to God I never follow or like any Femoboy content on Insta only silly cat and programming videos. Can't say about other platform though ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )). He opened it first reel was that Femboy roommate game. And he scrolled 10 reels and 6 of them were Femboys related. He didn't said any word after just logged out it. And I said aah I need to go somewhere bye. I fucked up sure.

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[–] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 34 points 4 months ago

Meh, blame their phone, not your account.

I once sat in a technical audience where the supposedly technical speaker was explaining why our national organisation shouldn't use Google Ads on our website. He explained that the ads were inappropriate, because when he tested, it only showed ads for women's night wear.

The audience stayed very, very quiet.

Afterwards nobody had the courage to explain that the advertising was linked to the browser, not the website.

[–] rtxn@lemmy.world 21 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Own it, otherwise you'll be the person who got caught looking at femboys.

You can control how an embarrassing situation plays out. Take it from an expert: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DMij8LspzHk

[–] hmmm@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

How?

[–] rtxn@lemmy.world 14 points 4 months ago

Do the "yes, and" routine. You can't deny that it happened, and deflecting blame (even if valid) will look like desperate damage control. Don't bring up the topic, and if the others do, make them look weird for it.

[–] Dasnap@lemmy.world 8 points 4 months ago

They were scared because they were looking into a mirror of their soul.