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although honestly, the guys need unsettling compliments once in a while. they need to shake their entitled sense of security and to learn that they are loveable

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[–] Staden_@pawb.social 55 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I didn't know what catcalling was and I assumed it was calling someone the way you would do to a cat, like going "pspspspsps"

[–] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 41 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That'd still probably work for me

[–] Staden_@pawb.social 15 points 1 month ago
[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

PrrrrrRRRrrrrrrrRRRrrrrrrrrrr

[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

*sniff sniff sniff*

gently munches them off of your hand, careful not to bite you

[–] SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

Aha! Victory!

*snatches you up and carries you inside while no one is looking*

Another one for the collection

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 1 month ago

I would immediately meow :3

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 month ago

this is now canon

[–] Twinklebreeze@lemmy.world 53 points 1 month ago (5 children)

As a cis dude that's mostly straight, I want to cat call all the boys I see running in those short shorts with no shirt on. Jog your athletic abs over here baby. They're good looking, and I hope I can make their day. Haven't done it yet, though.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 39 points 1 month ago (1 children)

straight

twinkle breeze

Alright, then.

[–] Soulg@ani.social 33 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] gon@lemm.ee 55 points 1 month ago
[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 month ago

As another mostly straight cis dude:

I have always just genuienly complimented anyone that I think is really pulling off a look well, regardless of their sex or gender.

Gal in a truly stunning dress?

Guy with an uncommonly well groomed and styled mustache or beard?

Give a quick, specific, genuine, polite compliment, as you are walking by, so it doesn't seem like you are cornering them or anything.

Worst case scenario, they don't appreciate it, and you just keep walking.

Far more often? They reply with some kind of quick 'thank you', smile, keep walking, and now there is a little bit more happiness in the world.

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Everyone's making some implications about you based off of that "mostly" which really isn't cool. That "mostly" tells me you know yourself better than a lot of people

[–] Twinklebreeze@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don't mind. I've made those jokes about myself for most of my life.

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Sorry, didn't mean to speak for you, it's just a trend I notice a lot especially with genderqueer stuff.

"I enjoy this generally feminine thing as a guy"

And then a billion people come out of the woodwork saying things like "egg spotted" "who's gonna tell em?" "Are you sure you're male?" And that is absolutely toxic and harmful. So, I try to call out that sort of thing when I see it. Either they know who they are and are comfortable with themselves, in which case those kinds of comments can get real old real fast, or they're not and those comments push them further away from exploring their identity. For trans people it's called the egg prime directive, based off of the star trek principle of non-interference with developing planets.

I did that once. It turned out to be one of my friends I hadn’t seen in years.

[–] GluWu@lemm.ee 30 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Me whos last compliment was the cashier at circle k saying nice shirt 3 years ago

[–] whodatdair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 month ago

A random girl told me I had beautiful eyes in line for an amusement park ride about 5-7 years ago and I still think about it 🤣

[–] Fredthefishlord@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Grow long hair. People love complimenting it and then you get plenty

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[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

guys do need more compliments, but catcalls feel more like harassment than appreciation.

[–] AnyOldName3@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

If you're dying of thirst, you wouldn't appreciate a life preserver and if you were drowning, you wouldn't appreciate a glass of water. Lots of men are so compliment-starved that they'd appreciate being catcalled even with all the negative implications, and I imagine that plenty of men who catcall have never considered that them appreciating the same in reverse wouldn't mean there's no good reason for women not to want to be catcalled.

[–] Glytch@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

If you can, grow a handlebar mustache. I get complimented on mine everyday I'm out in public. Once established it only takes about 10 minutes of maintenance a week to keep it trimmed and waxed.

[–] univers3man@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago

Honestly, this would make my day. I still remember the first time a girl said she liked my hair, ahd that was like 15 years ago.

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

hehehe i wan to call bois lik dis too <3 <3 <3 bt i wana go evn furthr!! :o

i rlli lik the idea of babytalking guys to like - to no end!! <3 <3 <3

i imagine many wud like thad !!! (i kindsa wud so why not thos guys too ~?)

when guy does somthn gud i go

  • aawww u did so guuud! *looks at u lovlili* yesyes u did this so supr nice n perfectli n like uhm.- im veri proud of u please kno that oki? ~ <3

when guy is done aftr work

  • u don for the day ~ ? - - - oh nononono i didn mean it in a bad way, im jus happi that u found an endin - becuz working all day is-- well i believe it cnt be gud ovr time-- so much work n physical... yea no, jus be here with me n imma... imma get the hearts blankie - hold on!

when guy eeps

  • *watches furiously how breath leaves nostrils* :o
[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

careful there smorty, ur saying some dangerous things 🤭

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

waitwait... dangerous? ;(

i dun wana harm anyone... whos endangered?

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

cute girls gotta be careful about being too inviting to dudes. you sadly gotta watch out for ppl in your dms if you comment like that too often

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[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

oh oh oh oh !! hol on!!!! :o

is that.d....

uhm let me ask in private - -- -~does~ ~that~ ~mean~ ~that.....~ ~u~ ~kindsa~ ~like~ ~that~ ~too?...~

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[–] rockerface@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago

I know I would like that

[–] ElcaineVolta@kbin.melroy.org 14 points 1 month ago

pls don't fluster me.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I wouldn't know how to deal with that 😫

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

you sound like a cutie in need of affirmation <3

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago
[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Heel turn pivot, strike a confident dreamy anime dude pose, smirk, 'Hey, thanks!' heel turn pivot back, continue with what you were doing.

I am not even joking. When I was younger, and anime was less generally popular, that would be probably viewed as extremely cringe...

But nowadays, anime is much, much more generally popular, and I think this would work.

Just gotta actually be confident.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I was basically a splindly but evidently cute twink when I was in college, and I got cat called fairly frequently whenever I was out in the LGBTQ/Lots of Bars and Clubs district.

Sometimes it was drunk girls, more often it was drunk gay/bi guys.

One time that I distinctly remember, a guy and a gal were out on the sidewalk tables, the guy (seemingly dared to ask by the girl) waved at me and asked me if I was 'trisexual'.

I thought about it for a bit, and responded '... yeah, sure?'.

( I had made out with a guy once in a game of spin the bottle, not half bad!)

Guy got up and kissed me on the cheek.

... The next day I told a friend that had happened, and they said something to the effect of 'well that makes sense, you are a bit of a twink'.

... And that was how I learned what a twink is.

This was back in the late 00s and early 10s, and while I'd always been accepting and nondiscrimantory of anyone based on the way they dress or their sexual preferences... I hadn't really been exposed at all to any LGBTQ history/culture/terminology at that point... tended to spend too much time studying.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

a cute nerdy twink; truly blessed ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Unfortunately I have since transitioned to 'twunk' lol.

Oi vei, I've had a rough go of life the last couple of years, currently doing aquatherapy to recover from over a year of homelessness, constantly on the move, routinely getting assaulted... leading to many muscle and tendon tears and bone fractures... which has forced me to now be largely sedentary...

But I am working toward getting that twink body back.

Managed to go from wheelchair to cane in the last 12 months, hopefully in another 6 or 12 I won't need the cane and will be able to do basic daily excersize.

[–] i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hey, a fellow former homeless person with mobility issues. Best of luck for your recovery.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago

Thanks, I appreciate it.

Sending 'wise tortoise wins the race in the long run' vibes back at you, hehe.

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