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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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Thanks go to FraudulentFruit1 for the pic - it’s perfection!

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Her stupid girlhood crap and creating art not just an outfit pic is so stupid. Bird looks like every other blonde frozen faced blown up lips woman posed on a tropical beach this year. But it tracks - you take a photo, you’re an artist. You book yourself a photoshoot, you’re a model, you run around the block, you’re a runner. Hardwork, consistency and commitment of others is meaningless. Can influencers go away already?!

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

So glad she’s feeling ‘revived’ after her faux friends getaway! It’s such a relief! 😮‍💨

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

She is such an ass. Girls trip birdie is now my least favourite!

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

She had the birthday girls trip in January and now a girls trip in May so I guess she requires one every quarter. She really has such a hard life.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Right. Her saying I feel revived is a slap in the face. She does literally nothing and has all the support in the world raising her kids. She's the biggest joke and I can't wait to watch her go down!

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I don’t know another 40-year-old with 4 kids who is mothered more than this one! I hope she recognizes HER mother this weekend and actually does something for her (I do suspect there is a control thing and martyr complex that goes on with Nana but you know what I mean!)

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

You know that won't happen. There will be an expected staged spectacle just for HER, with a lot of word soup about being a "single mother" and pushing through, me me me me isms

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

And then she’ll recount the year she took her pregnancy test - on a whim - on Mother’s Day/B’s birthday and found out she was having a 🍋

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Some info based on the current 🐦 recent stats. (condensed the info so it’s not as long as a CVS receipt)

Signs of Bought Followers & Why It Looks Suspicious:

  • Unnatural Follower Drops: 🐦 lost nearly 4,000 followers in one week, with daily losses over 1,200 at times (suggesting mass bot removal or fake accounts being purged)

  • Sudden Follower Spikes: Just days later, 🐦 account gained over 2,500 followers in two days without any visible viral post or campaign. These abrupt jumps often match the pattern of purchased follower boosts.

  • Low Engagement Rate (0.69%): Despite 2.5M followers, the account averages only 17K likes and 200 comments (way below what’s expected, which points to inactive or fake followers)

  • No Engagement Surge During Follower Growth: If the new followers were real, you’d expect a rise in likes, views, or comments, but engagement stayed flat.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks for this! I was wondering if the steady decline was bots reaching the end of their contracts. It’s so odd that she just replenishes when it’s so obvious and, I would think, brands look at this kind of thing. Engagement should mean more to them than follower count.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

This morning’a little speech in bed about how much she loves women and how they all just ‘see’ one another makes me sick. It’s all about how they look and see the beauty in one another and it just makes her feel so good. This woman does, indeed, spend her entire life worried about the way she looks and she doesn’t like it. She tells you she does but she hates everything about herself.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

This is bullshit and she knows it - a woman with any intellectual ability would be honest with themselves about this. But then…perhaps there are woman who think this small - that our spare time and spare funds are best spent on our appearance. I’m not saying it’s a vice to care for ourselves, to take pride in our appearance and find joy in new hair or cute outfits. But to make it what we are best known for or to be gazed upon by men or woman for what’s on the outside. How boring that our hearts and brains mean so little and how sad! I’m so worried for the next generation of woman.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

With real woman like us...our daughters will be the strong, independent woman who don't value their lives on another person's view on them. She is a disgusting disgrace to all woman.

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Omg. Stfu already Birdshit. Real girlhood friend groups don't give a fuck about our bodies or looks. We just live in the moment and appreciate the day.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

Regardless of what she thinks in her head, most women aren’t dressing or presenting themselves for either the male OR female gaze. Most women aren’t thinking about how they look to other people regardless of their sex. Only people like her who only care about their looks are thinking this way, she is SO shallow.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

All about the GAZE, can’t get enough of the GAZE. Can she STFU already.

[–] some_guy 15 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I’m always slightly amused when I see her pop up here. I enjoy knowing that whatever her weird shit is gives people a shared topic.

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

This is so damn dumb. This is exactly what she is now - taking selfies in bathing suits, looking at herself in her phone, obsessed over her external appearance… how is this ANY different than now. She literally filters herself to be smaller than this now anyway. She is not well.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

The girls she used to be in 2017 was using filters too. Cool

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Super glowy skin where? It’s super caked as usual.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

I wonder if Shame and Nana are going on and on about how happy they are to be spending 1:1 time with little 🍋? The poor child must wonder if she did something wrong since Mommy just went away again.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Is it even Mother’s Day if she doesn’t post pics of herself in her underwear?

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago

Being a mother has everything to do with being an actual mom to their kid and NOT their body. Shut up already. Never once have I heard or even had a conversation with a parent about being a parent, parenting things, or our kids, and it involved talking about how our bodies looked and how it was relevant to being a good parent.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Sucks at resting….sure 😂

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

I challenge her to step into the life of a mom who works a 9-5 outside the home! This woman spends the majority of her time resting while nestled under a blanket on the couch! She has piles of laundry because she didn’t do it as soon as she got home from Bahamas!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

Sucks at resting, this woman is so full of shit. I didn’t realize that going on back to back vacations and being away from household responsibilities wasn’t resting.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

She is always looking for ways to talk about her size - especially when she knows her body positive self can’t break character. She hates this world she created where you don’t comment on people’s bodies because she’s craving the compliments on her weight loss. The need to call out that she’s a size 10 - that does not add any value to her blabbing.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Lmfao. Another post about her outward appearance. Like omg stop Birdshit. You are so gross and toxic.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago

Yes you are so right! I guess she was always a perfect wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend - no need to talk about that kind of growth!! Interesting the more she’s loved herself the more she’s sucked at being a good person. Narcissist doesn’t even quite fit bird, a whole new diagnosis might need to be created.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I know she loves these pictures and no one can tell me differently. There is no other reason because she should know posting them is harmful as well as posting what she didn’t eat that day.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

She loves them so much she even makes them thinner. From the Canadainfluencer sub on reddit (left is the actual cover, right is what she posted today).

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

Geez. She's sick

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

She is 10000% posting them because she’s actively trying to get back to that size - no one can convince me otherwise. Shes obsessing over it!!!!

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

And the before and after shots. She’s trying to catch an algorithm because her recent posts have gotten so little engagement. Sarah influences for paychecks. How any woman out there believes she’s anything else baffles and concerns me.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

She is losing followers because people are sick and tired of this bullshit. She's so dumb she can't see that!

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

She is in Bahamas and this is her content!!!!! Ewwwwwwwww. I wish I wasn't blocked. I'd comment and rip her a new one!

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Makes me wonder how many times a day she looks at these pics.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

How many body’s did she pack for this trip?

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

Those legs. I wish she could be arrested lol. The size of that thigh?? What is wrong with this woman? I really don't think anyone truly cares about her if they don't speak to her about this.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)
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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

Imagine this being your biggest problem. No entertainment on the plane tomorrow. Get bent Bird 💩 maybe watch Twisters again.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

Always hiding her chin or making a stupid face to hide her real face while everyone else is smiling

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

Those aren't the legs she posted today lol

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