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We all work so hard to get our salary. But how much we got it's really not enough to cope in this society as everywhere and everyone forcing us to pay for something really useless, purchase things that unworthy for our money, pay for entertainments (netflix, gaming, music, podcast, etc.) or just to show our friends and family we are living a luxurious life even though we really don't want to.

What are some ways your money get leaked uncontrollably and you have no control on it or just forced to?

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[–] the_abecedarian@piefed.social 17 points 1 month ago

Every tax break for a billionaire or subsidy for a fossil fuel company is money we pay for things we don't want

[–] Geodad@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

My taxes going to fund the Gaza genocide.

[–] dom@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Who's forcing you to spend to show you have a luxurious life? Better off living within your means and investing the difference.

[–] Radiantly9267@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago

I don't mean everybody or just me lives that way. But many do...

[–] Tenderizer78@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I am fine with spending excessive money on some things, but I shed tears of blood when I'm forced to give money to someone I hate. Most recently is was buying a refurbished Pixel 8 so I could use GrapheneOS. Spending a lot of money on a Google product was a prerequisite for using GrapheneOS.

[–] Radiantly9267@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Spending that much money for a phone to install a custom rom is insane. Do your threat model requires you to use grapheneos specifically? If no, then why not use a budget phone with lineageos and nogapps?

[–] Tenderizer78@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago

Security should never be taken lightly, though physical security is a different matter and GrapheneOS seems to talk about that a lot for what it's worth.

If I were to buy a new phone today, I'd probably get an e-paper one with a degoogled OS. But I still (supposedly) have a decade before GrapheneOS stops supporting my phone.

[–] Today@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

I'm older, my kids are grown, and I'm kinda past caring what other people do and think. I have friends with kids who complain about how expensive it is to enroll kids in the activities that "everyone does."

I'm forced by the government to give up a bunch of money so that people can feel important rolling around in their $50,000 toys with heated seats and entertainment systems, while simultaneously destroying the planet.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

Going out to bars when I was a student. I wanted to spend time with people, not spend money on the outing.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 5 points 1 month ago

Going with the spirit of the question, not the text (I don’t really think we are forced to pay for β€œextra” things, it’s all choice):

But one area I cannot comprehend is people buying cars on finance only to keep up with others who buy cars on finance.

[–] AlecSadler@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

Credit card roulette with friends at dinner and I lost.