Rather something like "mister". Maybe "sir". Not "lord". I think it might be tricky to understand it from English POV because it doesn't have a thing like that neither on linguistic nor cultural level
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The funny thing? English used to have 'thou', which was the equivalent of 'tú', and 'you', which was the equivalent of 'usted'. Then for some reason they just stuck with 'you', and 'thou' went out of fashion.
So that's what it was! They just went all high-strung and official
And now our cultures shift, dropping the "sir", because we're getting exposure to American corps. Making everything even more mixed up :D
Languages go through silly changes sometimes. I'm almost sure (after a whopping 0% of research) that it all happened because using the formal you sounded more polite/respectful. The weird thing is, in my non-English language speaking country, I grew up hearing that English people just "tú" everyone. And in all fairness, learning Spanish, a LOT of them "tú" everyone literally.
Yes, exactly the same here, another non-English country
Well I'm southern so I say sir and ma'am almost reflexively (and occasionally get tripped up when I meet a northern "miss") but it helps me tense usted to know that is actually the same origin of referring to a dignitary in the third person. And I'll probably get around to referring to most patients that way, most of my job is talking people out of dumb decisions and it's always helped to lead with sir and ma'am so presumably usted will yield similar results.