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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 18 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

“Always choose love” love yourself F everyone else 🤣 also the instant coffee makes a whole lot of sense now. 🐦 just tell everyone you have no idea how to make coffee and Shame isn’t there do it for you anymore.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 16 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Always choose love??? Says the 41 yr old who has 2 divorces hahah... Mmmm OK.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (3 children)

LOL!!! Maybe thats gearing up for her new love story, she fell in love (on traitors) and decided to chase that 🤔

Side note: I know most of us are blocked but does anyone ever reply to her stories or comment on her posts and say “you’d never know you’re going through your second divorce” lol because I’d love to

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

How does 🐦 have 4 children, she's been a mom for 20 years, and doesn’t know how to replace their toothbrushes after having strep? 🐦 didn't get sick because she's never there, or if she is, her mom or Shane were taking care of everyone/everything.

Her “noticing things” project isn’t being launched right now bc it’s not the right time. You mean choosing joy and memes to cure all 72 of her afflictions/ailments?

I bet she's either launching something with that wacka doodle therapist whose podcast she was on, or it's the online subscription hypnotherapy person (who isn't a therapist)

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago

She’s probably the type to never provide her kids with new toothbrushs bc she doesn’t seem to have a clue about anything. Idk who doesn’t change their toothbrush after being sick, I thought it was common knowledge.

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[–] Mostlycivil@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Gotta love how she turns shopping for a dress for her daughter to all about her!

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago

And ends it with a gifted pair of fucking Uggs from Browns Shoes. JFC gift it to a woman who needs them.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Imagine posting a video of yourself crying over an almost failed art attempt with everything going on right now. JFC

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Got herself a room at the Fairmont. All snuggled up watching Traitors, doubt she was alone.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Starting the day with some body shots. The lack of content and hiding must have her engagement down.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

What a way to start a Saturday, the same old boring shtick! She’s really nothing since Shame left and she can’t post the kid anymore either. Now that she actually has to do stuff at home like watch the kids she posts a lot less since Shame isn’t taking on all the responsibility 24/7. That or she is still freely gallivanting around and doesn’t want to post who she’s with.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Hid all day yesterday. What’s the matter? Couldn’t post because of who she was with? Her coverage of the Bridgerton bs was basically just reposting photos she was tagged in. Didn’t even brag about her Fairmont hotel room.

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[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago

The touching herself in this video was cringe. Just get an OF already.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

The way she's using her arm to pull back her stomach. Nice.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago

It’s all body checking. She is so obsessed (not used in a trendy way but truly) with her body. She is sick.

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[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago

I hate this trashy woman

[–] MrsCookie@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

Go on girl, give us nothing with that ginger ale review. Why bother send her these things???

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[–] Gereminator@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)
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[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 16 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

In Sasha Exetor's #Caudalie video #thebirdspapaya looks a little different than her IG stories.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 4 weeks ago

Can’t do the easiest of tasks…

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Shame must have dropped 🍋 off this morning. Cos playing mom of the year 🙄🙄🙄 How sad for that little girl who loves her mom, the witch who abandons her for every pointless opportunity handed her way.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Never have I ever had to show social media my child loving me. Fucken loser she is.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (6 children)

“Her go to” sure bird. Way to sell that cream.

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 month ago

The way she showcases details on her borrowed clothes over and over but is on a brand trip and doesn’t name or explain the brand she fakes uses. This company is dumb for sending this lazy narcissist.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Her editing makes her look like a cartoon. The super tiny neck is a joke. Here is a reality check for her.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

Literally the most boring content creator, she has nothing worthwhile going on and nothing to post. What a snooze. You’d still never know she was in the midst of a divorce either.

Also nobody wants those gross ass lips near their forehead for a kiss

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

They look like a pigs asshole 🐖 And for real, one story for the failure of her marriage with “the greatest love of her life” and she’s completely glossed it over while continuing to accept lavish opportunities. How her idiot fans can’t see how disgusting she is baffles me!

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago

Oh it's being framed as something she's moving on from, stepping out to a new phase of life as though that marriage was something to endure and get through to truly find herself. EVERYTHING is always framed as something she overcomes, childhood, teenage years, marriages, birth... she basically says life always just happens to her in the worst of ways, but she fights and survives, like some kind of warrior. 🙄

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

That's some shade on birdie... 100%

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh the brave one in her villain era, won’t name a single person and posts cryptic bs.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago

Exactly! What’s she’s doing isn’t breaking the mold, she’s just trying to get attention, so…same mold. She’s just trying to turn her own life into a reality TV script. I don’t even want to give her the comments to repost. She is really a looser.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)

My my what textured skin all of a sudden.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 month ago

So her phone CAN take high quality shots, but ONLY when the parts she usually filters aren't in frame. Interesting, I didn't know iPhone had that feature.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago

Welcome to the “Fun with Filters” workshop.

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[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 15 points 4 weeks ago (5 children)

Love the big advertising for hello fresh. Which is pretty bargain-basement partnership for an influencer, but also HORRIBLE for people who can’t do gluten. …Not that she’s going to eat anything.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

She’s been posting food more often. She’s either playing the game of the shrinking weight loss influencers who show themselves eating huge portions from fast food places and Diet Coke to prove they eat or she’s trying to find filler content now that she can’t show L. Either way add it to the many, many things where she should not be an “influence”.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 4 weeks ago (5 children)

Sasha posted a video where bird is front and centre. She looks awkward and bitchy all at the same time. You gotta watch the whole thing!

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[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Has this slut even watched Bridgerton 😒

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

🗣 pay attention to meeeeee (but only if it's sexual in nature and/or makes me a victim.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

Hate her so much. Imagining having to listen to these idiots in the hallway

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