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So I was a fool, neighbors dogs got into a fight, not abnormal, but never had it been more than a growl and a nip and the dogs know oops they aren't playing, stop. Well the larger dog has been sick, (princess). So when playing the smaller dog apparently (new to the family ~6 months, maybe 3 years old) saw it as an opportunity apparently. When playing (German shepherd next door to them on the other side, so they run and play with a 4' fence between them. The shepherd can jump the fence if he wants, but doesn't except few occasions whole bored. (He came to visit me on Oct. 31 while I sat outside, put him back, jumped over and came back to hang out). I have no issues with the shepherd as he gets aroundy chickens, and does not hurt them. Today my neighbor heard his dogs fighting and tried to break them up. He tried putting a rope around princesses neck to pull them apart, but the smaller dog had her by the underside of the throat and would not let go. I heard it from next door and ran over. There had never been blood spilt before In their playing, but there was blood clearly now from biting around the throat and I couldn't tell who. I assume princess. He was throwing a 5 gallon bucket of water (near 30F 0C here) at the dogs to see if they would sperate. I hopped the fence and took the smaller dog who had the latched jaw by the scruff and pulled her off. Then got him to take princess to another small gated area. The smaller dog was fine with me, but when she realized playtime was over (tail wagging, madman of a young lady) she grabbed my forearm, I told her no, and pushed her off and she immediately stopped. (Yes she's dangerous and I was dumb). But her entire canine tooth went through my forearm and I had a hole near a centimeter round.). My fiance doesn't do well with wounds. She immediately started telling me I need to go to the emergency room, but honestly I'm poor, and I wasn't bleeding much at all. (I'm stubborn yes, but she missed anything important, I mean not bleeding like... 1/60 of a ketchup packet and no bandages.). Pure luck. So I cleaned it with cold water doused it on hydrogen peroxide and made sure it was covered. But now my fiance keeps acting like she's the victim, and it's an act of me against her. It's been near 10 hours, I have full feeling in the hand, no puss or heat, nothing other than mild swelling. I traced it with a pen just to make sure the bruise doesn't expand and I don't know. But Im just tired of getting told I don't care about her, because I won't spend money we don't have to make sure I'm okay when I got bit.

Edit: also I should say he's a great neighbor, he will come feed the chickens and give them attention for fun, if he has nothing to do , he will mow our lawn and help out with ever being asked. So ~300 worth of medical assistance, though he offered, I'd never allow him to pay. I've never asked him for anything, but he has been helpful for more than 4 years I've lived here. If anything I would swear I owe him money for his hospitality

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[–] WolfLink@sh.itjust.works 20 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

The danger isn’t blood loss, it’s nasty bacteria getting deep in there. If you haven’t gotten a tetanus vaccine recently you really should go get that.

Other than that it’s probably fine but definitely keep an eye on it. I got a minor dog bite a few years ago and it was fine just treating it with neosporin and keeping it covered with a bandage.

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 weeks ago

Tetanus, rabies, staph, strep. Infection is the bigger worry. Go see a doc.

[–] _deleted_@aussie.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Go straight to the emergency room, get it properly cleaned out, and get a tetanus shot. When my hand got mangled by a dog they sent me straight from emergency to plastic surgery, they had to open the wound, peel back the skin, and clean the inside. Don’t take the risk of it getting infected.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Thanks, yeah my tetanus shot is definitely out of date. Last one was maybe 14? So 22 years ago if that's accurate. But I'll be keeping a close eye on it

[–] WolfLink@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah you should definitely get that shot if nothing else.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

do dogs really carry tetanus in thier saliva, its safer than a cat bite though.

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

This is a big oversimplification, but the bacteria that causes tetanus basically lives in the dirt. If dirt can get to it, it can have tetanus on it. And I don't know many dogs that are above picking things up with their mouth from the ground.

There's of course the old myth that it's caused by rust, rust really has nothing to do with it, it just happens that if you leave something made of iron/steel outside, it tends to rust and also get dirty.

The bacteria also lives in the digestive systems of a lot of animals, so if something might have pooped on it, there's another way for you to be exposed to tetanus, and again a lot of dogs are willing, even eager, to eat poop.And of course there's no shortage of people and sources that are happy to tell you that basically everything in the world has a bit of poop on it in some form or another.

Also, remember that part about tetanus living in animals' digestive systems? I hope so, it was only one paragraph ago. That includes humans, there's a pretty good chance you have tetanus already living in your gut. In your digestive tract it's not an issue, maybe even beneficial (we still have a lot to learn about our gut microbiomes) it's only really an issue if it makes its way into your bloodstream/lymphatic system, which it normally can't do except through a wound.

And deep puncture wounds, like from a dirty needle, rusty nail, or dog's canine tooth, are kind of the ideal place for tetanus to do its thing, like most bacteria it likes things warm and moist, and your body checks those boxes nicely, and it likes a low-oxygen environment and there's not a whole lot of airflow at the bottom of a puncture wound.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Im not sure, I was originally worried that the bites to princess would have her blood in them, so when the smaller dog biting her would possibly transfer whatever illness from her to me, but dogs/humans share few viruses. Bacteria is another story, but without puss and irritation, I think I walked away lucky as possible

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

It actually looks 100 times better than when it happened. I had a white bloch maybe 1" by 3.4" when it occured. But cleaning, covering and letting it rest it now looks to me like no worries at all. (Clearly being foolish about bacteria still) But the wound has closed up so it looks much smaller

[–] NeatNit@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 2 weeks ago

If it was me I would DEFINITELY go to a doctor or emergency room, better safe than sorry. There's a chance it's nothing, but there's a chance it's a huge freaking problem. You can't tell by yourself. Doctors and nurses know exactly what to do in these situations. Go to them.

But I'm in a country where an emergency room visit is very cheap or free, I know that's a factor for you and it really sucks.

[–] Vespair@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The shepherd can jump the fence if he wants

Sounds like bad dog ownership overall tbh, and definitely the kind of wound worth checking out for possible infection

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Yeah the shepherd though has been good, only coming by to say hello when he's real lonely. It's the ~35-40lb mix bread that bit me. Princess is a mix too that she had by the throat. The shepherd is the one I've had come by my place and while I got worried once he may hurt my chickens, he didn't. He let them go with no wounds and it's been 8 months with him never trying to break into their pen since I told them no. Now they just stop by every few months to say hello and get pets. Honestly, her/him being able to jump the fence makes the neighborhood feel safer as I know they won't let others mess with my property. Not every dog is bad like not every person is bad. The pitbulls that attacked my chickens, are afraid to mess with the shepherd.. . So I kind of like the shepherd knowing they can hop the fence and come defend them if I am at work or asleep and can't hear.

[–] Vespair@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That you were lucky in the temperament of your neighbor's dog doesn't change the reality that having a pet that can and does regularly escape enclosure is bad pet ownership. You could have just have likely lost that draw and ended up with a problematic animal that wasn't properly secured, but thankfully you didn't. It sounds like the shepherd is a great animal; my condemnation was not direct at all towards the dog, just the dog owner.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

The fight was in their enclosed back yard. I jumped the fence to help him. The shepherd is 2 doors down and is the only one that can leap the fences, but he stayed out of this mess as he knew it was upsetting people. (Probably an error of my story telling while not paying attention enough)

[–] Vespair@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I got that, your story-telling was fine, no worries. I'll admit, I was sort of just making a non-sequitur based on your aside in my commentary there. ✌

Although I did also mean to suggest that if they're comfortable with this kind of oversight you can't know what other oversights they're comfortable with, and thus you really should get checked for infection.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world -4 points 2 weeks ago

Can’t read this wall of text