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[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

how rich is "rich person" - because my relative scale is so bad that being in a car with heated seats feels very "rich person" even though it's more like upper-middle class (if I'm not mistaken)

if "rich person" is more like top 1%, I'm not sure there's anything I've done that's "rich person":

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

Buy sandwiches every week. In my defence, they're damn good ones!

[–] wildwhitehorses@aussie.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

I am amazed at how expensives sandwiches are these days. Even the cheap supermarket ones are no longer cheap.

[–] noseatbelt@piefed.ca 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Go to Michelin starred restaurants. I'm too poor to justify going to these places but my mom likes to take me out for my birthday, and I really love food so I will inevitably agree after a very feeble protest.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

this, too, is my weakness - good food is good food; I don't need nice presentation, wait staff, etc. - I just crave excellent food.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

... i sleep on expensive Italian/belgian linen sheets...

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 6 points 3 weeks ago

I bought a piece of outdoor furniture yesterday. The nice kind of outdoor furniture which won't immediately rot in the Pacific Northwest.

...but just one piece.

[–] MantisToboggon@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Oppression of the proletariat.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 weeks ago

bad girl, no 🚿

[–] djdarren@piefed.social 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I've lived on Queen Mary 2 for almost a year.

Granted, I was working aboard at the time, but still...

[–] foxglove@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Hi djdarren, thanks for your helpful comment! Unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please refrain from commenting further.

I hope you understand 💛

[–] djdarren@piefed.social 4 points 3 weeks ago

Oh, I'm VERY sorry, I didn't see the community name!

zips it

[–] Zathras@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 weeks ago

I don't splurge much on clothes, technology, vehicles, food, etc...but every month I do get a professional massage (get your head out of the gutter ...totally non-sexual). Helps with all the muscle tension that builds up from daily stress from everything (work, life, anything). If you've never had one, I highly suggest trying it out at least once.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I've tasted tea in a teahouse that would be over $1000 a pound.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I mean, to be fair a pound of tea is a LOT of tea by volume.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 1 points 2 weeks ago

It's a few months' supply, yes. I probably go through about five pounds a year.

[–] wildflowertea@mander.xyz 5 points 3 weeks ago

I only fly once a year, and I save like a madwoman so I can buy business or first class.

Granted I do it because my health turns flying tourist into a waking nightmare with week-long consequences.

This got me to be picked up by a limousine once. It was excruciatingly awkward.

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

I can say from experience that I prefer riding in a Maybach over a Bentley, and driving a pre-war Bugatti is infinitely more fun than one of the modern ones.

If I skip certain details, my life sounds intensely fancy. I'm writing this message from a 5 star hotel room, for example. But the reality is much more down-to-earth, and I'm thankful for the things I have :-)

[–] juliebean@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago

i've gone snowboarding a few times. haven't been able to afford it for years though.