a) Nobody should ever need someone to make them feel complete.
b) What happens when the man (or partner) isn't in a rut? Is his partner still the "Queen"? He doesn't need anyone for the highs along with the lows?
This kind of toxic "traditional" crap is what leads to relationships where one or both partners feel trapped and obligated to stay in the relationship. What if, hear me out, all involved partners are treated like equals and human beings, all of the time!?
"Can't handle me at my worst, don't deserve me at my best". Cut the shit. Grow up. Be better. Be accountable.
Supporting your partner is real, and I'm here for that. Making then dependant on you is not.