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I used to think that I am someone who loves casual and naturally flowing conversations, but as I aged and my disabilities started to become more and more of an obstacle to living a 'normal' life, I started dreading naturally flowing conversations more and more because I knew, in my gut I knew eventually the person talking will start talking about "Like just shower and look respectable" "be respectable, someone people respect and listen to do you can agitate" like yea for that one I see how people under current system see anyone they aren't familiar with as an outsider and won't listen to them but that's really something we should push back instead of making it a core tenant of our movement and still there's more from the type of media people like (side note, please don't watch attack on titans as a leftist, it is a dogshit show, there are far better thrillers if you want a mystery that don't promote Japanism (Japanese Fascism)) to the way people talk, like who thinks randomly yelling 'anti-woke' type stuff is fun? Seriously who? I have learned to not be in friend circle of the able bodied, they never understand, never will, and sadly maybe never can. When they're talking to you, they seem so delicate but when they're talking amoung themselves you their truth.

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[–] splendidsadiks@hexbear.net 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

People will tell you that just doing more things will reawaken your motivation. This is true, sorta, but if you're completely unwound to the point where basic tasks aren't getting accomplished, you should make sure you go through the same steps over the course of 2-5 days.

  • capture all tasks or reminders you will need in the same place, which is reviewed as the first part of the process. Just list everything & don't hover until you run out of tasks to note down. If something would take less than 2 min just go do it immediately

  • clarify those captured tasks & decide if they are reference material, something you need to wait for someone else on, something you can't do yet, a day-specific action, a project composed of multiple steps, or just an uncommitted idea.

  • organize: bmake separate digital or even physical inboxes to collect these categories. There are only like ten overall categories for things in my life like that

  • review: basically just an organize step done on the stuff already filed through those steps. I set meta-reminders to do these steps & then

  • engage your inbox tasks depending on context (you win)

Anyone who recognizes the source of my methods (businessslop) here stay quiet it helped me quite a lot & I haven't changed the overall map of this for years. To quote the source "if you find yourself listening to distsnt sirens, wondering where they are headed" (I don't think I have ever not done this, & my mom is even worse about it) this method will be very helpful to you

To give you an example, books I want to read are repeating daily reminders flagged "later" that have subtasks which are the actual project "finish & annotate Title"

[–] Enjoyer_of_Games@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago

I have found it helpful too.

The author is pretty upfront about the businessslop framing just being what was necessary to get it published at the time. Today it would have been written as minimalismslop or something.

Not that it matters, the bullet points in your comment is all anyone needs out of it anyway.

[–] splendidsadiks@hexbear.net 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Also there's no point in your little settler organizations. Just get out before they kill you. I'm tired of mincing words. Don't let people trick you into making yourself a target to accomplish symbolic political goals lol. They have no plan for you

I have explained many times on here that the US left is no better than the Israeli left. Well, the current struggle is over a guy literally allied with the Israeli left who has been celebrated on this site for years. I have a perfect record for being right about these things