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[–] ickplant@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I will routinely forget what I ordered. My husband asks "Oh, what's that?" and is still surprised when I say "No clue." It is kind of like opening presents...

[–] Sabre363@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Opening the packages is always a nice surprise, but checking the bank account never is.

[–] Mohkia@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Ooph, I feel this, I almost just got in an argument with my husband again about money spent...I'm going to go hide my credit card from myself now.

[–] Mohkia@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

It's like Christmas all year round! I see nothing wrong with this! 😃

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago

This is especially worse for me when I order late night from aliexpress. Two week later I get cheap trinkets randomly.

[–] RacoonVegetable@reddthat.com 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Why is everything in this community is so damn relatable!! 😫

[–] blazeknave@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

No joke, ND communities online have probably saved my life. All the things I thought made me a loser or think I'm a bad person (e.g. I'm not thoughtless, I have a different brain than you..) ... Nope.. just not typical.

[–] Stache_@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago

No kidding. I just received a Nicolas Cage pickle Christmas ornament that I bought at like 2am last week haha

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I get so fucking manic when I don't sleep for a day or two. I once listened to the Magnus archives for 12 hours straight and sent like 2 million texts to everyone I knew ranting about it. I literally had to tell someone about how much I fucking loved it at that moment. I think sometimes I don't sleep because I'm trying to reach that high

I don't really buy things but I'll get absolutely obsessed with certain media or history. I'll never reach such an incredibly flood of dopamine without sleep deprivation.

[–] Window_Error_Noises@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I've been up for two days straight again, and amazingly stopped myself from hunting down individual, vintage mugs that would personally match all of my online friends, and setting up an early morning grocery delivery order for nothing but snacks and almond milk. I might still make the mug gifting thing happen though, when I'm ADHD sobered up.

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The problem with adhd high is that it doesn't require anything to begin, you just wake up in the morning and boom it's there

[–] Window_Error_Noises@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The "buy unnecessary things" really hits me during the insomnia, when I've reached the sleep deprived but kickin somehow high, and all I wanna do is pace or bounce in a chair, find neat stuff, or finally click pay on those things I really should get for the house sitting in all the open tabs

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Ritaline really knocked down my insomnia, I'm so tired in the evening I fall asleep easily

[–] Window_Error_Noises@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's great to hear! I'm glad you found some relief. I finally go in for medication soon, after months of appointments and evals, and I'd be thrilled to get anything close to a normal sleep routine as a perk of the meds.

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Getting used to life on meds takes a little bit but I hope they will help you as much as they help me :)

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

The problem with adhd high is that it doesn't require anything to begin, you just wake up in the morning and boom it's there

[–] PopcornPrincess@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Very relatable. It makes gift giving easy for my SO. Post-Halloween if something that piqued my interest, I would tell him “whoa, that’ll make a good Christmas gift.” By Christmas I forgot what I suggested…until I opening gifts and I was like “oh yeah, nice!!”

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 years ago

I did this exact thing the other week. Luckily sleepy me remembered to use a discount code though!

[–] jtk 1 points 2 years ago

I have at least 6 Atari 2600 homebrew carts I've never opened, and some of them cost over $100 after shipping.