AFineWayToDie

joined 5 years ago
[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 1 points 1 minute ago

"...'til the handle breaks off and you have to get a doctor to pull it out again!"

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 9 points 23 hours ago

I don't care if he's Muhammad "I'm hard" Bruce Lee. You can't change fighters.

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Mommy, where's Fluffy?

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

"It's the American dream!"

"Yeah, because you have to be asleep to believe it!"

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 3 points 6 days ago

My partner is drunk again. I'm supposed to get up at 5am tomorrow to drive her to work. The same thing has happened for the past 2 or 3 weekends, and so far she still has a job, but her drinking has cost her more than half a dozen jobs in the past few years and her behaviour shows no signs of changing.

I'm growing more and more resentful because she doesn't want to go through with any sort of addiction treatment. My own counsellor has offered to me to connect her with someone, and there's addiction treatment on-demand available at the local hospital, but she just doesn't want to do any of it.

I know that addiction is not as straightforward as just asking for help, but I've been out of work for more than a year and a half and can't find anything, while she hops from job to job like this.

There are times when I just want a break from watching her self-destruct, but she'd probably be on the streets if she wasn't living with me.

I have ADHD and am probably on the autism spectrum, and I know I'm not always easy to deal with. But she never tells me what she's feeling or what she wants, and it feels like any effort I make to support her, or even just keep an eye on her to make sure she stays on the wagon, ends up as wasted energy. And it's already all I can do to keep searching for work.

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

I've only watched one season of White Lotus but it captures bourgeois social pathologies like nothing else I can think of. Except maybe Succession.

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

"How DARE he go to war.... without asking the adults first!"

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

The People Under the Stairs

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago

First of all, no one wants a nuclear-armed Iran

I-was-saying

[–] AFineWayToDie@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

Does this mean that Trotsky is actually the one who cursed Tokyo's baseball team?

 
 

My Instagram, in case you're into this sort of thing (Lego).

 

the frog is Horny

 

Recently I had a meeting with someone from my government's job seeker assistance program, who recommended I make better used of LinkedIn in looking for a job.

Specifically, she recommended that, if I find a job posting anywhere, I look the company up on LinkedIn, find someone who already works there, and message them directly to get the name of whomever is in charge of hiring, and even to ask if they'd be willing to give me a referral (which can be especially enticing if the company offers referral bonuses).

I hate doing this sort of "networking," where every interpersonal interaction is a veneer of courtesy in order to maximize returns, even though I know it's a necessity in today's professional world. It does not sit well with my particular brand of neurodivergence.

Since Hexbear is the most based community I know, even when it comes to professional bullshit of this sort, I was hoping someone here could sanity-check this approach. Maybe I just don't want to start hassling someone on social media without someone else telling me it's okay (besides a civil servant).

A little more background:

  • I was laid off last September from an unfulfilling but steady job with a video game publisher.
  • I have several years of experience in entry-level tech support jobs, with a bit of work on things like databases and scripting. I prefer the latter sort of work because people are confusing and frightening, but my last employer wouldn't even let me do minor work on that stuff, and the ones who do work on it are very defensive of their positions so they didn't offer any help either.
  • I know the tech sector is kind of fucked right now but that's all I have to work with.
  • I studied computer science in university but I had to settle for a degree in general studies because I failed integral calculus four times. This was before I was diagnosed with ADHD.
  • I don't have any certifications.
  • I don't have much of a code portfolio. I try to keep working on it but it's already all I can do to stay motivated with the job hunt.
  • I consistently get good feedback on my resume and I've always been a stand-out employee when I am working.

Now that I've written all this out I realize that my position is pretty envious compared to a lot of people. Still, after months of applications without so much as a callback, I've completely lost faith in my own judgment. So any feedback is appreciated. Thank you, comrades.

 

Cox has always been my favourite actor. Nice to hear that he has a soul as well.

"I swear to God I'll pistol whip the next guy who says 'Shenanigans.' "

 

Asked about dead kids on designated quiet train. Is nothing sacred?

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