[-] Alice@beehaw.org 4 points 3 days ago

Why would anyone want to be reincarnated? The world is descending into fascism and it won't be liveable much longer anyway. When I die it better be fucking permanent.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 2 points 4 days ago

I didn't mean them specifically. I assume the reason they're not sure is because they've heard people call it a myth before, as have I. And I think it's shitty that people do that.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 5 points 4 days ago

Why do people think it's an urban legend when women describe how they've been medically and sexually abused? 😐

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 5 points 4 days ago

There are no jobs in my area besides factory work that will pay me as much as Walmart. I doubt I could even make pennies off art, it's all being replaced by AI.

I agree about not having friends anymore. I've always craved human connection but I'm going to get over it.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 1 points 6 days ago

Disclaimer that I don't believe in ghosts, but in fiction at least, I think the usual implication is that a ghost is someone who hasn't passed on correctly. A few people have brought up unfinished business already, but even in stories that don't bring that up, ghosts are often people who died horribly, prematurely, and/or violently. Sometimes they're explicitly under a curse keeping them from moving on.

Basically, the circumstances of their existence are wrong, and they're stuck due to forces beyond their control. That's kind of the tragedy of being a ghost; they're often a whittled-down, corrupted version of their living self.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 8 points 6 days ago

A straight guy tried to hit on me in my DMs once and it took forever. He kept saying he had to tell me something and then saying something like "never mind, I'm too shy" or "I changed my mind". I'd seen him at work earlier that day and I told him I was planning on gaming when I got home, so obviously I was AFK, but every time I took a while to reply he'd be like "?" "where did you go?" before I'd remind him that I had other shit to do, which just stretched the conversation out even longer.

I've been told this was a dick move but I rejected him before he even got to the point because I couldn't watch him do this to himself over someone who's only into girls.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 11 points 6 days ago

Awful. Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and the usual shit that comes with working retail during the holidays. I'm never home anymore. I'm always at work. I'm always trying to fill orders with equipment that doesn't work, in back rooms stuffed so full of pallets I can't reach the product I need, with deadlines I can't hit.

After I walked away from my friend group I stayed in touch with my best friend, and things were nice and it was a breath of fresh air at first, but now we fight all the time. He keeps going "I can't keep doing this", but I don't know what he wants me to do. I feel like he engineers these impossible conversations where anything I could possibly say turns out to be wrong. If I point out that he's contradicting himself, he gets upset because I know he has memory issues so I shouldn't expect him to know what he told me last time. But he's still allowed to get mad at me for doing what he asked...

He kept saying things about me that straight up weren't true, not subjective, and didn't acknowledge it when I told him he was wrong. I'm pretty sure I caught him trying to gaslight me right after I thought we made up.

I loathe everyone I know at this point. I know I need to give up on friends, but that just leaves me with my family, a bunch of homophobic leeches. My fucking father asked me for a DNA test on Thanksgiving. He could have asked decades ago, but he only decided now because he's running out of excuses to fight with mom. All anyone ever wants to do is fight and tear other people down.

I need to learn how to stop feeling lonely without turning to other people. All they do is upset me.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 40 points 2 weeks ago

Why is everyone acting like the user did something to prompt this response, and then lied to the press about it? Obviously Google didn't create life, but isn't it more likely that LLMs scrape from the internet, which is full of edgy and rude people? Especially since Google has its partnership with Reddit, which is a haven for cynical assholes.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 37 points 3 weeks ago

I guess it's because his Discord server was where he leaked them? I feel like someone who doesn't use Discord could read this headline and assume he worked for the company, though.

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I tried /r/suicidewatch on that other site, but even though I made it clear that I was looking for advice and encouragement, the only two replies I got were in agreement that it doesn't get better. 😐 /r/depression is even worse by the look of it.

Does anyone know of any good websites, or is it the nature of all of them that they just turn into a crabs-in-the-bucket nightmare? I'm trying to get better but it also gets isolating pretending I'm not depressed all the time.

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Never done this before, turned out to be a lot of fun :)

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 38 points 2 months ago

Honestly it'd be horrifying to wake up in the 90s again with an adult awareness of where the world is heading, and that it was already headed this way because we were knee-deep in capitalism and colonialism.

I liked playing with toys though.

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I'm 30 and horrible at keeping friends. I don't know if it's the unschooling or the autism, but I'm told I come across as hostile when I think I'm being nice.

I know the basics. I make eye contact but not too much, I ask people about themselves and their interests to show I'm interested, I don't dominate conversations with myself and my own interests. I try to be a nice person people might want to keep around, too— I give money when someone's in a pinch, I remember birthdays, I help move, et cetera.

Eventually people either people tell me I'm being a dick in ways I never realized, or more likely, they just eventually stop messaging me back.

The one thing I'm sure I struggle with is body language. I've read a lot that you need to mirror the other person's body language, but I don't know how to do that. Especially since I normally meet people at work and we're usually pushing big carts around and moving products and I'm just not thinking about my body as something expressive, just practical.

I'm sure I have many more blind spots that I'm not even aware of.

So like... are there classes for this? Some kind of specialized therapy? I don't really want to try anymore unless I can stop being a dick

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‘Family values’ bill is adopted despite being denounced by the president, rights groups and the European Union.

Kesaria Abramidze, a trans model, was murdered the day after the bill passed. Even if the president vetos it, this law already has a body count.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 45 points 2 months ago

I thought they were just trying to hammer home how wild it was for the file to get that big, since it's just a text file.

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So basically I was unschooled, and the amount of books I've read in my life is embarrassingly low. It was never emforced like in a school, and with my family's religious hangups, I never tried getting into new things because I never knew what would be deemed "offensive".

But I'm always interested when I hear people talk about both storycraft and also literary criticism, so I want to take an earnest stab at getting into books.

No real criteria, I don't know what I like so I can't tell you what I'm looking for, other than it needs to be in English or have an English translation. Just wanna know what y'all think would make good or important reading.

ETA holy shit thanks for all the suggestions! Definitely gonna make a list

ETA if I reply extremely late it's because it took me this long to get a library card in my new locale.

[-] Alice@beehaw.org 40 points 3 months ago

I like this so much better than all the bitching about how surreal and unfamiliar gen alpha's shit is.

Something that's really novel when you're a kid is taking a strange premise that seems like a one-off gag and making a whole narrative about it. It's why we had flash cartoons built around the premise of "what if Mario met Sonic using DBZ rules" or why some of us watched hour-long amateur movies about the Nostalgia Critic. I'm not saying those things were good, but it's really subversive when you first encounter it, and it's emotionally satisfying to explore the potential of something you liked instead of letting it be a flash in the pan.

So basically, when the kids try to tell me about the Skibidi Toilet's ability to turn even the bleakest situation around, even though I have no idea what the FUCK they're talking about, I understand why it's so riveting to them.

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