ChexMax

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[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (8 children)

Studies show dieting doesn't work for most of the population. Studies have shown this for the last 60 years. Sure, it works in a vacuum, but that's not where real people live.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Four weeks is still way better than average if you're in the US

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The fourth factor is probably actually how poorly women are treated by doctors/ western medicine. Once all that is exposed and validated, these families are throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

Easy to convince someone that doctors don't care what's best for them after several doctors mistreat them.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

My husband is blue collar. He goes where things need to be fixed. Sometimes his commute is 15 minutes, but it's often 2 hours, when you factor in distance and traffic. A lot of blue collar deals with this, and yeah. We choose that shit over being homeless. His tech field laid him and everyone else off a few years ago.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Probably an old friend reaching out and saying I miss you. That someone would have me on their mind enough to reach out would be validating. Ever since I had a child I don't have the resources to pursue my own friendships anymore, but In a few years when the kids are a bit older, I hope to get back to having friends.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Yes, when I ask my toddler for space or privacy in the bathroom they often come right up and hug my leg. Like a cat but much more invasive lol

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I mean tailor it or get a thicker padded bra. Small tiddie people don't own cutlets for no reason. Stuff that top till it looks like you want it

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago

But they also don't know the not of rewatching a series for (kind of) the first time again, or rereading a book and getting surprises in it.

They probably get to drink their coffee while it's still warm and don't have to set 15 alarms starting a few days before in order to make it to a doctor's appointment on time.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Ooh, I can make a little rumble thunder happen if I do that! But why would anyone want to? And weirdly, just yawning doesn't really do it, but squeezing the eyes while yawning does. Huh.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Fucked AND that couch

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

I hear what you're saying about staying away from shitty people, but anyone can lie about who they are short term, and when women are wary of all men in order to stay safe, we get hit with "not all men." It's a real lose-lose.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If withholding lifesaving care is murder, everyone who hasn't donated a kidney is a murderer. Everyone who didn't donate blood this month is a murderer. Everyone who isn't an organ donor is a murderer.

No one getting an abortion is a murderer, they're just not agreeing to share all of their organs with another person for almost a year.

So yeah, I just don't understand their position. They don't call withholding medical care by sharing organs murder in any other context.

 

I'm pregnant again and I guess I'm looking to vent and maybe for some affirmation.

This is my second baby, but it's my fourth time doing the first trimester. We've suffered two losses.

I'm only 7w5d and I'm already so tired of being pregnant. I'm awfully sick all day every day and I'm crazy tired no matter how much sleep I manage to get. I'm doing my best to meet my toddler's needs.

I just hate this and because of my losses I feel so guilty hating every minute of it. There's nothing beautiful about this. I just feel nausea all day long, I throw up every morning, I cry at every stupid thing, and I'm dog tired. Every smell is overwhelming to me and most food disgusts me and I'm too tired to make myself anything to eat, so I'm always hungry.

I wish I could tell everyone I come into contact with as an excuse for my exhaustion and low effort, but I know how much I won't want to talk about it if anything should happen so I'm pretty stuck there.

I just hate it and I wish more often the media would be honest about how doggone awful it is. Nothing is working to relieve my nausea. The thought of ginger makes me puke from trying that for my morning sickness so much last time.

I guess that's all. Ain't being a woman grand.

 

Is anyone else having the issue where you're 30 comments deep into a post, you reply to a comment and when you submit it refreshes the whole post making you lose your spot in the comments?

Is there anything I can do to prevent this?

I'm on a Google Pixel if that's relevant.

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