ChexMax

joined 2 years ago
[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Yeah this game is definitely better if you're totally burned out/ depressed, cause then the handholding is kind of nice. Plus the main island is kind of sandboxy to create your real home/ base since you basically have very little autonomy in the main quests, and you don't get that in the first one. I feel like my whole life is so many decisions and I'm too tired to actually do hobbies or game, but I can do a cute game like builders with no brain, just mindless fun.

I feel the same way that it's like if Minecraft came with a Lego manual and all you're doing is following it.

Do you like Lego? Do you like following a kit, or do you want to build how you want without instructions?

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

And I think also shared what food he had. Yeah, the kid was under prepared for sure, but apparently he had studied the food sources and terrain somewhat. He got unlucky. Not being prepared for unlucky is very very dumb. But most people I hear mad about this think he was zero prepared

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Idk what the ulterior motive is, but if your goal is to protect children this is like the third or fourth least damaging porn of all. Like ban all other fetishes first

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Yeah, I read that hypothetically consuming the plant (which resembled a nontoxic look alike) could have made it so he was too weak to scavenge what he needed to survive. He could have survived otherwise. He was certainly gambling with his life being out there alone, but I read the claims of him being totally unprepared were exaggerated.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Once I did a single small inhale off a dab and missed all of friendsgiving sick in bed. Also once I took a hit off a friend's vape and had to Uber home from the halloween party cause too high. Would much rather use an old joint where you kind of know where you are and can build more slowly

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Bubba was unavailable

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I agree, but does suck for upper middle class kids who's parents suck. My parents were poor so I was eligible for all kinds of scholarships/aid. My hs boyfriend's dad was well off enough that he qualified for zero aid even though his dad wasn't interested in supporting him financially at all.

He ended up with much higher student loans than me, though we received equal financial support from our parents.

Our mindsets around money were different though so maybe it evens out? He wasn't afraid of debt, took out loans for everything, became an engineer, does ok. I got a full ride, worked three jobs to cover room and board, ended up overwhelmed and depressed and dropped out. Eventually got my AA at community college. Still have like 7k in student loans a decade later with no real degree.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 17 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Where do you draw the line? Not being combative, just curious. Like my toddler should not have bodily autonomy. I don't think a 5 year old would handle that responsibility well either. At what age do you get it, or does it increase gradually?

I try to let my toddler choose who they hug, or let them pick their clothes when I can, but they are very dumb. They don't understand the consequences of not wearing shoes, or insisting on a jacket on a hot day. They should have little to no autonomy over their diet or it would just be 15 bananas and constant constipation.

I am ON BOARD for discontinuing the barbaric genital mutilation that is the norm in my country, but do you let a teen get a breast augmentation or a nose job just because their high school peers are bullies? Your teen's (and young adult's) brain isn't done cooking. Where's the line for body modification expression? Even just evidence of ear piercings don't go away fully for decades.

What are the basic rights kids and teens should have? (And sorry to hear you live in a community where physical abuse is normalized)

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I touch hand rails. And i never wash my hands immediately upon entering my home unless I've just been shopping. I don't get sick almost ever. Is the idea that this prevents you from getting sick or just that it helps you not to feel gross?

Of course 2 years ago I had a child, I touch as little as possible in public, I wash my hands constantly while out and at home. I am sick all the time. The child doesn't go to daycare and we don't go to church but we're all sick several times a year.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

No, at least for some people they can control it. I told my loud sneezing husband who "couldn't help it " if his sneeze woke the child, the child was his responsibility alone to care for and he found a way to sneeze normally.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

Communication is not an option when the man speaks no English and is functionally blind. You can't mime any thing. You wouldn't have been able to guess his language either to use a translator app, because it's not like he was speaking something recognizable to the average American.

I agree, calling the police is a gamble at best, but so is letting a stranger into your home who is holding a curtain rod. It was not obviously a walking stick with red tape on the end. Unfortunately, as a woman in America, your default is to be wary if not afraid of men.

This situation just sucks for everyone involved, and is a downright tragedy for the man. He was abused by the authorities, not the random woman whose porch he ended up on.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Yep! I'm both! My glass hutch in the kitchen is all clear and white glass and matching sets, daily use. My hoarders nest cabinet in the pantry holds cups from mystic pizza, the pirate restaurant, promotional yetis, my nostalgic Tupperware from college with no lid.

 

I'm pregnant again and I guess I'm looking to vent and maybe for some affirmation.

This is my second baby, but it's my fourth time doing the first trimester. We've suffered two losses.

I'm only 7w5d and I'm already so tired of being pregnant. I'm awfully sick all day every day and I'm crazy tired no matter how much sleep I manage to get. I'm doing my best to meet my toddler's needs.

I just hate this and because of my losses I feel so guilty hating every minute of it. There's nothing beautiful about this. I just feel nausea all day long, I throw up every morning, I cry at every stupid thing, and I'm dog tired. Every smell is overwhelming to me and most food disgusts me and I'm too tired to make myself anything to eat, so I'm always hungry.

I wish I could tell everyone I come into contact with as an excuse for my exhaustion and low effort, but I know how much I won't want to talk about it if anything should happen so I'm pretty stuck there.

I just hate it and I wish more often the media would be honest about how doggone awful it is. Nothing is working to relieve my nausea. The thought of ginger makes me puke from trying that for my morning sickness so much last time.

I guess that's all. Ain't being a woman grand.

 

Is anyone else having the issue where you're 30 comments deep into a post, you reply to a comment and when you submit it refreshes the whole post making you lose your spot in the comments?

Is there anything I can do to prevent this?

I'm on a Google Pixel if that's relevant.

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