Contramuffin

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[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

There's a lot of speculation here that the moderation and appeals on Reddit have been transitioned into being primarily AI-driven. Basically, I have no idea what to expect as a response and I don't think anyone could say either.

I used to be fairly active on Reddit, now I just lurk once a week or two. Not only because of philosophical differences, but because Reddit moderation has become such a black box that I genuinely don't know what could be perceived as breaking the rules

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago

The cat clearly isn't ashamed. He's doing it to the sign as well

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

Seems likely that it's dropshipped. So I would wager there is no real source

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 22 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I agree about SDDM, it's an unexpectedly sore point for Plasma. I hear that they're working on an in-house replacement for it and it honestly can't come soon enough

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

You seem to be confusing what you want with gender roles. Nobody said that men must make the first move. Many satisfying relationships start because women make the first move. But by consequence of the fact that you want a relationship, it naturally then follows that you'd have to make the first move.

IMO using props is a poor move. Might get your foot in the door, but it'll be obvious that your interest/commitment to the prop is not genuine. People can tell if you're acting, so I would ignore any comment that tells you to imagine and act out a scenario - doubly so if you're using a prop.

The trick is to realize that a cold call almost never works. There is a very low chance that any one person you run into on the street is looking for a relationship, and an even lower chance that they'd be willing to bet on a stranger for that relationship. So you're facing 2 filters that are lowering your chances that any one person you meet would want to get into a relationship with you.

You can't affect the first filter, but you can at least change the second filter - just don't be a stranger. It's easier said than done, but it's possible with concerted effort. To put it bluntly: be amicable and be social. Put yourself in situations where you meet people, and befriend them. And you are by far more likely to run into a potential partner from the people you already know than in a public park. I don't even mean to pretend to be friends - I mean actually be friends. Socializing has a compounding effect where the more you socialize, the more people you get introduced to. That's also important because of the fact that you can't affect the first filter. Clearing the first filter is really a numbers game, to simply know a lot of people.

You'll need to learn to maintain a social circle. Based on what I can tell, you seem to either be an introvert or have social anxiety. And honestly, I understand. I can't say that the process will be easy or that it's fair that extroverts have a leg up in the process, but the unfortunate reality is that society is built upon the assumption that people are social, and you have to play by those rules. The upshot is that more people are willing to be in a relationship than you'd think, and you don't really have to expand your social circle that much or maintain it that well before you come across someone who agrees to be in a relationship with you.

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 11 points 4 days ago

There's not much to it. He's distinctly unlikable, and he's also really easy to meme about.

Ongoing memes that I know:

  • Vance fucks couches - afaik this never happened but people like to say that it happened anyways because it's funny
  • "Have you ever said thank you"/clown suit - taken from a meeting between Trump and Zelenskyy. Vance interjected and asked Zelenskyy if he had ever said thank you to the aid that the US has given to Ukraine. Vance also asked why Zelenskyy wasn't wearing a suit. Apparently the Ukrainian word for suit is the same as a clown suit, so people like to say that Vance asked Zelenskyy to wear a clown suit
  • baby Vance - I honestly don't really know where this originated from, but people just edited his face to make his face small.
  • killed the pope - the pope died the day after meeting with Vance. People like to say that his evil caused the pope to die. As an interesting side note, the pope supposedly wanted to teach Vance about compassion shortly before the meeting
[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

I find that high school really doesn't expose you to many of the most interesting fields and careers out there, and the subjects that it does expose to you are typically taught at a very basic, foundational level. To put it simply, I strongly believe that you and many other people in your situation don't know what they're passionate about because they don't even know it exists.

I think it's the fault of the school system for not working harder to show the intricacies of actual careers, but for now, we just have to deal with what we're given.

We can try guessing what sorts of things you may like if you tell us a bit more about yourself. What sorts of things are you passionate about (ie, hobbies, obsessions, interests, favorite subject in school), and why do you feel passionate about it?

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 23 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (5 children)

Assuming nothing breaks (unlikely), you could potentially calculate it by calculating the energy stored in the engine/axle spinning. We know that energy must be conserved, so the energy after hitting the ground must be converted into heat and kinetic energy (of the car), with some energy left in the axle to keep it spinning.

I don't know enough about car parts but it seems feasible to at least estimate an answer given enough information

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

May I have the Thaumaturge? Thanks a ton!

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (4 children)

OnlyOffice. Newer and somewhat less features, but the UI is so much better than LibreOffice. I've been on a quest to find the best Office alternative and OnlyOffice is what I've settled on

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Distilled water still has impurities, just not the kind that will leave a residue

[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Would that be a viable method for a state to secede?

ie, give state to another country (Canada), then state secedes from Canada

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