Just tell him respectfully, sometime.
As a parent, myself:
That sounds entirely reasonable.
The answer is 2.
Cling to known humans who write their own code.
Snake oil salesmen always encourage the public to bet against the experts, with predictable results.
Someday ethically sourced AI can be used responsibly by trustworthy coders.
But the key is choosing to collaborate with trustworthy coders.
I'm constantly amazed that this is a hard subject for people. As the golden rule says:
"I'm not going to reach into your pants, without an invitation. And I prefer no one reach into my pants, because we barely know each-other. Whatever someone tells me is in their pants, I'll take their word for it, as long as they haven't flashed me in public. Also, shitting in practically transparent stalls is awful for everyone, and showering with strangers sucks. Let's all just do less of both."
There's been some great ideas here, but I like yours the best.
Bill Burr complaining about being forced to be the pope would be amazing.
"I'm not going to lead mass. Leading mass is Charlie Work!"
Does anyone have any clue?
My best guess would be some relatively passive notification stealing focus.
As reddeadhead mentioned, there's specific "don't steal focus" settings. I've had good luck with them.
Delightful quote:
“grug very like type systems make programming easier. for grug, type systems most value when grug hit dot on keyboard and list of things grug can do pop up magic. this 90% of value of type system or more to grug” — grug
Great analogy.
I think it's fair to tweak it and leave that second library with full accountability for the lack of desirability.
Domain names don't start out undesirable, they build their reputation from the content and users.
So it's like building a second library in a perfectly nice spot, and having that library attract people who dump pollution into the surrounding area, making it undesirable.
Uh... So no gift. Got it.