[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 20 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

The order is indeed about the "involuntarily celebate" guys. In Turkey two women were killed a bit ago by an incel.

Also the investigation is real: https://abcgazetesi.com/chpli-torundan-gundeme-gelen-inceller-icin-arastirma-onergesi-770933

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 57 points 1 month ago

"refugees" who were expelled

Are you hearing yourself?

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 47 points 2 months ago

I remember someone I was talking to using it as an example of why trans bad. Keep in mind that we live in the other end of the globe, I felt some part of my soul die seeing that bullshit come here.

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 47 points 3 months ago

I am sure this is a much more likely way to die than starvation, climate change related disaster or just an accident. Incredible argument.

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 68 points 3 months ago

Also a bizarre move considering they are so hard on for ads because Youtube is incredibly expensive to maintain. You are going to pay for comically large servers by... burning more computer time inserting ads into streams? Google screwed adbuyers before by not actually showing the ads where they were supposed to, Idk why they are trying so hard instead of doing more of that.

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 54 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

It's an incredibly mild complaint compared to how harmful this behaviour was but I am also annoyed by how F1nnster hid taking HRT. Trans people don't need to be out but their whole channel was about being a cis man on T who was just that girly which obviously was a lie. I tried to shake some sense into countless boymoders who were dooming because they were "manlier than a cis guy" and would not believe she was lying about not taking HRT.

At least this video will hopefully put an end to all the cope from insecure trans girls beating themselves down using him as a cudgel but probably not.

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 59 points 1 year ago

To the current Russian state, the war in Ukraine is an attempt to rebuild the USSR under the banner of nationalism rather than socialism.

These are real posts, written by real libs.

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago

Freudian slip. "I hope all these [slur]s will not shove it down my throat... God it is so thick... I think I'd gag."

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 60 points 1 year ago

100 bucks that this person is cis and their understanding of trans safe spaces doesn't go further than "don't openly advocate for their death".

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 51 points 1 year ago

I've never seen you support minorities, definitely not because I ignored it every time I saw it.

We are so owned, it's over.

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago

I am "instinctively recognized as a scam".

Only thing that really fits is NFTs.

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I'm not sure if this is the best place but I don't know where else I could talk about something like this. I know that my style of masculinity is toxic but I've never gotten good advice on how to overcome it as a trans man.

The assumption that trans men don't have toxic masculinity because "they got socialized as women" is a common one in trans spaces and not only does it not apply to me, the implication that trans men are softer men pisses me off and digs me deeper.

Lore time: I internalized masculine norms throughout my isolated childhood. I knew and insisted I was a boy from an early age and my behaviour got me isolated and bullied by my female peers. I was also mistreated a lot for being queer.

My main problem is being insecure because of dysphoria combined with the transphobia I've received, pushing me to toxic competitive behaviour that runs the risk of alienating my friends. However, compared to the attitudes I've faced and still face in real life, affirmation from queer spaces about how men don't need to be one way feel detached from reality. How can I not be insecure when I've been bullied for my whole life and none of that would've happened if my body wasn't female? If I said that doesn't matter wouldn't it be cope?

Tl;dr what do when toxically masculine as a trans man in very transphobic irl corcumstances? I would especially appreciate examples of masculine-presenting men who didn't engage in masculinity as a competition. If post is too big wall of text or just too many personal details tell me and I'll trim.

[-] EpicKebabEater@hexbear.net 41 points 1 year ago

I work out, read, touch grass and sleep consistently. Anon still has a great point.

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