[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 23 points 3 months ago

Can confirm this doesn’t work with other people’s managers :(

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago

Why not “Ma” for “male”? Why is the women’s bathroom the “female bathroom” and the men’s is just “man” or “men” or whatever??

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 25 points 5 months ago

damn capitalism really fucked you up lol

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 16 points 6 months ago

Conservatives truly are the biggest crybabies.

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 17 points 6 months ago

Careful how far back you go, buddy…….

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 25 points 6 months ago

A big problem with libertarianism is that republicans also flock to it when their own party doesn’t go “far enough” with its free market policy. The best route is to move to the left after becoming disillusioned with libertarians, but a lot of them unfortunately move towards anarcho capitalism— which is like, absolutely insane shit lol

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago

Came here to say this lol either he’s married or he takes this relationship WAY too seriously

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 13 points 9 months ago

It’s been a little over a year since I came out to the bulk of my family and friends. The feeling I get when telling them is different per group of people or even per person.

Coming out to my mom felt like the biggest weight was off my chest and I could finally breathe. This helped stop panic attacks I had been having for about 2 years as well.

Coming out to my sister was nerve racking but in the end so amazing, as she’s incredibly supportive. Our relationship has grown so much and she’s like my best friend now.

While each chunk of people and individual person made me feel that much closer to finally being done with coming out, what really sealed the deal for me was coming out professionally (at work and on LinkedIn) to finally shut the last doors people had into my old life. The feeling I had then was just…. Contentment. No matter where I went now, I didn’t have to pretend or hide anything anymore. That alone is probably the most amazing feeling in the world.

As far as how I felt when I accepted myself… I’m still working on that lol.

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 20 points 9 months ago

Alternatively OP may be getting bottom surgery congrats

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 13 points 9 months ago

I'm not sure this is the right community for this question, but as a trans woman I can offer some info.

Fat distribution in general is a result of losing and regaining fat, it's not necessarily moving the fat you currently have. Your body naturally loses and regains fat too, regardless of exercise, and this will depend on your metabolism.

In short, if you're looking to expedite those changes, you should seek to expedite losing your old fat patterns. If you have a fast metabolism, this usually happens naturally over several months to several years, and if you have a slower metabolism you may wanna look into fat burning exercises (that don't focus on upper body muscle, unless you want that or if you're FtM you may want that).

There is the concept of "weight cycling" which involves losing old fat (metabolizing or via working out) and then quickly regaining it in new areas. This works, but is NOT healthy. I mention it since you'll almost certainly read about it, and I wanna advise you against it. Cardio and lower body workouts will help burn full body fat without weight cycling.

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

Yeah it got old for me after a few weeks lol. It's a utility for me but I do smile whenever I see a trans friend be like "I love bras" 😂 get it girl. Enjoy while you still can lmao

[-] GoddessOfGouda@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

I'd be surprised if he did submit it as activitypub, he's already called it ATProtocol

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