Ouch. Feels. I religiously organize everything in Minecraft and Valheim. I got so frustrated with others I played with not putting things in the right places that I made boxes labeled "sort later", and they dump everything in there and I just sort it myself. Whereas my house always feels like a mess and I have always struggled to change that.
I've adapted by keeping a relatively spartan home environment. Stuff can't be as much of a mess if you don't have stuff you don't need, and the space is easier to clean with less in it.
They're allowed because who's going to stop them?
They're not allowed by law - they're allowed simply by being in control of who enforces the law. This kind of government corruption would normally be investigated by the DOJ... Except it's the DOJ doing it, and the only people who might be able to anything about that (the legislature and judiciary) are complicit.