Hi. I am new here but my moment of joy recently was a few times this week I got compliments on my figure then asked for workout/diet advice by a few other women randomly. I have been weight lifting/contouring and eating healthy (%80 of the time) for nearly two years. A few months before I had been living in a women's only house and for some reason a few suddenly were getting a bit touchy around me. I was getting concerned when the house mom told it was because they were competing with me. I already told my hubby I had started as an outsider then I became accepted. One day I became truly included. I was totally blind sided that a few successful women in my life suddenly saw me as competing with them. As a woman. I never dreamed of that level of affirmation. This week I had a small touch of that moment again.
Hi. I am new here but my moment of joy recently was a few times this week I got compliments on my figure then asked for workout/diet advice by a few other women randomly. I have been weight lifting/contouring and eating healthy (%80 of the time) for nearly two years. A few months before I had been living in a women's only house and for some reason a few suddenly were getting a bit touchy around me. I was getting concerned when the house mom told it was because they were competing with me. I already told my hubby I had started as an outsider then I became accepted. One day I became truly included. I was totally blind sided that a few successful women in my life suddenly saw me as competing with them. As a woman. I never dreamed of that level of affirmation. This week I had a small touch of that moment again.