Klarinette245

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So I (19F) have an ex (21F). She threw me out when I was no longer useful to her and seems to always want to be the center of attention. She shows signs of Cluster B disorders just in general, and she tried to make me seem like the bad guy by claiming I abused her, sexually harassed her, beat her up, and said I should go get raped and die.

She also said "men when you hate them" even though I'm not a man, she keeps misgendering me.

 

My (19F/NB) friend (17F) rejected me and said I was her good friend basically. She also seems to prefer guys and see herself with men because she only talks about having guy crushes and wanting a boyfriend or if a friend asks if she's dating anyone yet, she says "No I don't have a boyfriend". I'm gonna stop confessing to people and letting them come to me first...

 

Ich hoffe, die Leute nutzen es...

!offmychest_DE@feddit.org

 

Especially with my dad. I can't swear or bring up anything sexual around him, who I live with, even if it's a sexual harassment experience because "I caused it" and it was my fault, or at least he used to say that. So did an aunt of mine, his annoying sister. He says also because I'm a woman, I can't swear or say anything sexual.

I think people should be able to bring up dark topics and sexual stuff, even if it directly happened to them and they want to express themselves. Kids should be able to and women should too.

 

Hej! For Swedish speakers who want a chance to speak Swedish, I have an advice community!

 

I made an advice community for Swedish-speakers, and I happened to find one for Russian speakers. I'd mod, but I don't speak Russian.

It's called !advice_russian@lemmy.blahaj.zone

The moderator appears to have been banned

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Klarinette245@feddit.org to c/fragfeddit@feddit.org
 

Ich sehe keine Community für Ratschläge also werde ich hier fragen.

Als ich 17 (NB) war, ich hab mit "Emma" (15F) ausgegangen. Wir haben uns getrennt, als sie 16 war und ich gerade 18 geworden bin. Sie sagte, sie wäre keine gute Freundin, aber ich bin anderer Meinung. Ich glaube, ich war ein schlechter Partner.

Ich fühle ein nervöses, kribbelndes Gefühl in meiner Brust und meinem Magen, wenn ich an Emma denke, und mein Gesicht wird manchmal heiß. Ich hätte nichts dagegen, sie zu küssen, und ich vermisse unsere Beziehung ein bisschen, aber es ist mir auch okay, Freunde zu sein, weil ich nicht weiß, ob sie Mädchen/non-binary Leute immer noch mag.

Was soll ich tun? Mag ich sie immer noch romantisch? Ich hab eine Freundin, aber ich bin auch polyamor.

[–] Klarinette245@feddit.org 1 points 1 month ago

Thanks so much. I'm better now

 

So, way back when I was FtM in high school, there was this bully I knew named William. William was dating Tiffany, who bullied me for identifying as a guy but having feminine interests, as she said, like art and music. I also did not have many friends, so she bullied me for that.

She even accused me of flirting with her when I thought she was kind of pretty, but I never TOLD her I thought she was pretty, she just assumed because I was awkward and tried to be her friend and I was a guy that I was flirting.

I was friends with Isabel in junior year. She was a freshman. She confessed her feelings to me but I saw her as more of a sister, so she got mad and pushed me away, being nice some days and yelling at me others. I eventually had a crush on her when she was a sophomore and I, a senior, which maybe started towards the end of junior year-summer vacation, but it was already too late.\

William, Isabel, and Tiffany, along with their friends, decided to crap all over me and Isabel became friends with William and Tiffany because they bullied me. She threatened me to stay away from them (They harassed me first) or her new boyfriend Tyler would beat me up.

WTF??

 

Hi, ich bin Eddie, eine Enby. Ich hab !Lesbians_DE@feddit.org und !LGBTQ_Plus_DE@feddit.org gemacht. Viel Spaß 😊

 

Hi, ich bin ein butchige nichtbinäre Lesbe und ich will mer Communitys für Personen wie ich

 

Jag bor i USA, men jag talar svenska. Jag har svenskt ursprung. Har svenskar det som amerikaner kallar rednecks?

 

Like, she has Christian quotes and “believe in God” pictures/posters all over her wall, constantly talks about God, is intolerant of my eating problems and blames me for it yet is “friendly”, very capitalist and pro-gay yet anti-immigration/anti-trans.

Seriously, maybe I’m overreacting and this is not a stereotype but they kinda act the same… does anyone else notice this?

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