[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 14 points 1 year ago

I knew my gender identity was a lie

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 17 points 1 year ago

Same with my younger sibling. It was very obvios early in their life, but we didn't had words for it either. Didn't understand and didn't took it that serious.

I had my period with 11 years, but suffered till i was 30. Cause it was a tabu to talk about that. I need to Suffer, i was told. BS.

It is crucial to give kids knowledge that they are not wrong. That they are not weird. That they know everything is okay and their parents are here guiding them. AND they need to know that other people are not weird so they can learn empathy.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 20 points 1 year ago

Mindwandering while conversation/ sex was always annoying to me. I never understood why i am doing this and how to turn it off, cause "everyone else seems to get it right" and they made me feel bad for it.

It is importaint to talk about these stuff and reach out to people, who feel the same way.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 34 points 1 year ago

I wanna eat the real spicy food! In germany everything is watered down so n00bs can eat it🥲

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 10 points 1 year ago

Was eating noodle soup

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 25 points 1 year ago

Op is my todays hero ☺️

Cause i am an science historian interessted in the history of psychology and psychiatry. I want to understand why normal citizen are so paranoid when it comes to seeking psychologal help. When i found up what bs doctors in east germany did to their patients...

it is really importaint to double question your knowledge!

What reddit taught me: as a scientist working for a gouverment run institute i had no idea of all the bureaucracy and administration stuff. Redditors from my country told me a lot. Now i know how to nor be a 'arbeitsdrohne'😆

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 45 points 1 year ago

My boyfriend and i can't wait to watch this movie 😊 💕 (but cinema got expensiv dudeee 🥲)

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 9 points 1 year ago

Alles richtig, keine Kritik dazu. Gleichzeitig willst du aber eine Photovoltaikanlage haben und die deutsche Behörde behandelt dich als Privatperson genau so wie RWE, weil du 3 Kilowattstunden ins Stromnetz einspeist. Dann willst du mit der Bahn fahren, aber deine Strecke kostet dich 2 stunden statt ner halben weil Bauarbeiten, Personen im Gleis und ein quiddishhh spiel zusammen stattfinden.

Es gäbe Möglichkeiten, einen Wandel sozialverträglich zu machen. Aber dieser sollte dann aber auch nicht sabotiert werden vom diversen wichtigen Stellen

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 15 points 1 year ago

It is not the problem but a problem. I grew up in a western country and everyone told me, there is no need for feminism anymore. It took me years to understand that's a lie, but if you simply don't know were to get informations... if you are told feminist now are hysterics so you don't seek their help/advise... there is nothing left than to recreate the things you are told.

Cause if you get yourself educated you can easy become social isolated.

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 11 points 1 year ago

Thanks 😊

Mostly you are right, of course it depence on the country. a lot of institutes are tax funded, but the cost can't be covered just with that. Rent, wages, special rooms for the heritage... the new competitor is everything digital: a homepage, a database, social media. Museums need all of that to stay relevant. but the budget stays the same.

(And of course we depent on open data, to reduce thr dependence on big tech companies)

The war has shown how fragile this is. Cost of electricity had boomt, but there is no room to reduce it. Paintings, glas, it all needs their own temperature. But explain that to someone who is just Management. We scientist/ academics have a weak basis for negotiation, when the administration wants to save money. In my country cultural heritage is clearly not a priority, that leads to institutes having no money and losing relevance. Which is dangerous for the variety of knowledge.

Thanks for giving me the space to shortly explain this. I think we all need to work together to make the web, the heritage accessible! 😤

[-] Phoebe@feddit.de 50 points 1 year ago

I work with cultural heritage and have the strong believe, that information should be open and easy accessible. Citizen have a right to access to knowledge and to educate themselves unter their circumstanses. But of course the Infrastructur cost money and this should always be a discurse between all parties. And not been dictated by major companies.

It is a really hard fight for museums, archives and libaries lately. What do you do when your electricity bill jumps up to 5 million during the war in the ukrain?

We need to unite and search for ways to keep the Internet accessible.

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