I get where you’re coming from, but I also think some general traits that people can have are more common in people with autism.
Not everything is either definitively autistic or definitively just a trait.
I frequently find myself evaluating what parts of myself I can ascribe to autism versus just a facet of my personality. On the off chance that you have a manual that helps with this delineation, please send it my way!
I’m bi and hooking up with myself would be the absolute dream lmao
I’m also very insecure in general, so I don’t think it’s an ego thing - more that any sense of vulnerability would likely disappear.