[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 months ago

If that's the case then that makes sense. Its just that if I stop going out there, I said in my other comment that no one will come to be or I'm just you know alone but not in a good way. There is nothing wrong with being alone but for me its that my family is really forcing me to get married to someone they like and things I value are very different from what the girl my family wants me to marry. I know its fucked up but here we are.

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 2 points 9 months ago

Thanks for saying that, I appreciate you highlighting the positives of me. You're right when it comes to confidence, its just that I do hard things that people don't do because its just I wanted to prove that I am worthy for love and relationships. I do try to work on my confidence my trying to validate myself internally (that's why I have like positive affirmations notes with me all times and Marcus Aurelius famous quote of you having power over your mind).

Its still a work in progress but its just I crave for love so much and honestly this is something I just can't help but blame my own weight because women tend to like slimmer men even if there are women who like chubbier or even don't care about your weight. But the reality has been in my experience been that they do prefer men who are athletic or at least who look good but when you're not that its been a vicious cycle for me where to cope for rejection I'd just turn to eating more as a coping mechanism or a stress reliever. I do hope that women are more open minded and I do hope I am wrong about that. Again, thanks for your comment I appreciate you saying that.

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

You can try to untick the show viewed post in the settings and save it. That way it would hide viewed posted

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

You could try to untick the show read posts on your profile. That helped my viewing experience even I am on either hot or active.

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I noticed how old this is but I just want to say that I appreciate this post so much and that's pinned as well. The political stance was a matter of concern for me earlier but with this post, I feel it has clarified the rumors and I feel more confident in using this platform. Thank you so much mods and devs, you guys are awesome and love the software you've given us! So thankful for you guys!

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I think that's cause r/kbinmigration got banned and they got moved to r/lemmymigration, the support is more so supporting both while sympathizing how kbin's subreddit got banned which i think could be why there isn't that many posts of supporting lemmy

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Agreed, there are so many mismatched incentives in Pakistan's economy and there is also a significant amount of distortions in the market in such that the rich don't suffer from what daily wagers suffer. For example there so many exemptions in the GST tax where it's really regressive tax policy now where the rich the are exempted from so many taxes even reporting their earnings as well.

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think you might find that answer through lemmy's github and using their guides which I'll send it here in case anyone else is interested.

Lemmy's github

Lemmy's docs

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I agree, the story was okay. I remember we were promised that choosing a life path would affect how you played and how the story ended too. Well look how that turned out lmao.

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Can't wait to see what bugs... ahem sorry features Starfield will have in for us!

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Cato the Elder would say, 'Carpe Tuna.

[-] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Isn’t it alfalfa that’s literally using up a very significant amount of the already very scarce water resources in the Southwest?

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